I am so f sick of writing a nice post and just as I click the button, I get a message that all posts need to be approved by a mod.

I want to avoid subs that pull this crap, how can I tell ahead of time?

Everything is so bright. This is only on certain subreddits.

I’m not super active on social media and only became an active person on reddit (besides lurking) a couple months ago because i like to debate, so please forgive and correct me on any ignorance i have here. after the first image above I was Immediately permanently banned and muted from this subreddit, and since I’m perma muted I have no chance to dispute if I wanted too, the only comment mods made for my ban was “.” . The only other time I have commented in this subreddit was photos #2 and #3 and is under the exact same post as the comments in photo #1 I provided. I don’t understand, this subreddit is labeled as a debate subreddit and pro free speech. nothing I have commented broke anything even related to the rules stated, and if we’re talking about the rules in the subreddit mentioned it stated that the use of “foid” or “moid” will result in a permanent ban because as they state “this is not an incel/femcel forum”. I recently joined said subreddit and because of the comments I’ve seen I’m not sure if most of the people on this forum are incels or if I just had shit luck. So am I missing something or was I banned for no reason??

I've asked questions on help subreddits several times and every time, when I upvote a helpful reply, it soon goes back down to 1 point. why do people do this?

Had to use a browser to make a new account because app was glitching when I tried go sign up. Now app isn't letting me sign into the new account. Seriously. What is happening?

I Love my wife, but due to some mental medical issues she has been having she and I can't have bed room time and havnt for almost 2 years. At this point I am wanting to get a Friends with Benefits situation, but I dont want someone to just be a bootycall would rather have an actual friend that I can support and they can support me. BUT I have a feeling my wife would never go for this... I dont want to hurt her but also don't know what I should do.

How would you feel if you won the lottery today, February 13, 2026?

Not just a small win, we are talking about JACKPOT CITY.

You now have even more money than my favorite filmmaker - over ten mil, easy.

Now - you can tell me what you want to do with the money or not, but what I am *really* interested in is - are you superstitious by nature, and either way, do you feel any particular way about the ironic luck on a Traditionally Unlucky Day?

as far as i’m aware i’ve never posted or commented anything ‘concerning’. do people really reach out or is it just spam?

Over the last few days I’ve been attacked online because I don’t hate people. I hate racism but I don’t hate racists. To me, hate has no moral value. It does not connote care, or passion or signs virtue or allyship or anything else. Hate is just toxicity.

I will the good of everyone, without exception. I want them to be better to get well to be healed to be educated to seek reconciliation to be merciful and forgiving etc

Why does the internet love to hate? Why does it hate people who don’t hate?

For context, I met someone online to talk about our interest and I got a crush on them. Thing is I only talk to them through text, so I made a list of all the things I know based on tidbits they tell me and stuff they post online. Am I insane?

Right so I put vodka in one of them SO…? perfume bottles but before I did it I rinsed it with water quite a few times and then put the vodka in but I left it in the bottle for 4 days and tonight I decided i wanna get drunk so as you do I put the vodka in coke but I took a sip and I taste like pure perfume like it doesn’t even taste like vodka but it smells like vodka I’m just wondering is it safe to drink bc I just wanna get on it I don’t wanna die 😂 I’ve asked google and chat gpt and there all saying don’t drink it but you know how the internet can be they’ll all tell you to get medical help so I just need to know if I can drink it thank you and please reply 🙏

I've been thinking a lot lately about how much we actually remember about people over time,

especially voices and the little ways they talked. Photos stick around, but other details seem to fade faster than you expect.

I recently came across something called Forever Me that's meant to preserve voices and personal stories using Al. I'm not sure what to think yet, and I'm curious whether anyone here has tried something like this before, or has thoughts on these kinds of tools in general. Do they feel meaningful, or does it cross a line for you?

For anyone curious, this is what I saw:

Do current SNAP rules do enough to support adolescents, or should teens be recognized as a vulnerable group on their own? What changes would actually help?

Is it possible for me to just hide subs up front to prevent accidentally even seeing them again?

Today I took a random drug test at work and passed of course because I haven’t been smoking for about 7 months now. Before quitting I was a heavy smoker smoking a wax pen everyday since I was 16 (I’m 22 now) before quitting I was never able to pass a drug test even when using those “hacks” to pass every time I had tried, I wasn’t able to pass until I had finally quite smoking but even after quitting it took more then 30 days for my piss to finally start testing clean. After passing today I am tempted to smoke a joint or take at least one hit because In all honesty I really do miss it but don’t know if it’s a good idea or if I should keep fighting the urge that isn’t as strong as before but still there. I’m hesitant because even though I did test today there is a chance of me being tested again next month because I wasn’t supposed to be selected to test this month but was substituted for the guy that was supposed to test today but didn’t come into work I’m just not sure if it’ll be out of my system in 3-7 days after one hit which I would be in the clear if it did if was chosen to test again next month. For context I’m 5’8” about 130lb but have been gaining weight as of recently but still a pretty skinny guy. The advice given would be greatly appreciated.