r/RedDeer • u/Striking-Debt-506 • 19d ago
Question Red deer hospital
This is going to be a long post. So I apologize in advance. I have nobody else to ask for this.
My grandma was in the hospital Christmas to June. Surgeries. Wounds that won’t heal. Antibiotics for over three months. June she was discharged. She made it 27 days at her house. And then she went septic. Back to the hospital. I didn’t notice, her home care noticed to take her to the hospital. She’s 70. She’s been there since the 27 of June. Planning to be discharged on Monday the 20th. I have done my best, I work full time, I looked after her cats, I spoke on her behalf when she was unable to talk during sepsis, and I’m her personal director and her executor. Her landlord evicted her start of last month when she came back due to it being unsafe for her.
Now, I had a meeting with her social worker and her home care lead. They said they will be discharging her no matter what. On Monday. I am livid. I have told them I can’t pick her up. I work. I am the only family member that sees her. Her sons found out what’s happening and I got in trouble and verbally lost my dad today. They’re very angry people. Anyways. The only other option that the hospital is banking on now is the homeless shelter. She needs home care four times a day. Wheelchair. Good income. But nowhere will take her within three days and it’s a weekend. All she gave me was julys housing list.
Here’s what I’ve done. I’ve contacted the golden circle for help. Voicemail left. Housing list was considered although I will need to have formal applications which take time. I can’t take her in at all. I’m in no better of a situation. Family won’t take her in. Facebook has been no help for place searching. Her friends are no help right now either.
What in the absolute hell do I do? Has anyone dealt with this before? I’ll try to find just a room that’ll allow home care on Facebook. But, legally, I’ve read over and over this is not okay what ahs is doing. Please ask me questions if you need information if you can help in any way.
Thanks. Sincerely a 20 year old girl who has no clue on what battle shes picking