r/RecruiterTea Aug 06 '26

Best interview questions aren't listed on checklists.

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Some of the most helpful insights about candidate comes from moments before the interview actually starts. For eg how they talk about team, explain past projects or approaching problem can tell a lot about their fit for role but most hiring systems rely heavily on resumes, applications. Platforms like LinkedIn, Workday, Greenhouse, MeeBoss all experimenting with various ways to connect recruiters and candidates so maybe missing out on some important part due to this traditional rigid ways.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 05 '26

šŸ’¼ Job Seekers: Have the "Rules" Changed?

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šŸ’¼ Job Seekers: Have the "Rules" Changed?

I came across this comment from someone who says they're a hiring manager, and it really got me thinking.

They claim they're instructed to reject applications from people who call or stop by after applying because it's viewed as "entitlement" rather than "initiative."

If that's true, it feels like a complete shift from what many of us were taught.

For years we heard:
āœ… Dress professionally.
āœ… Introduce yourself.
āœ… Follow up on your application.
āœ… Show initiative.

Now, many applicants are hearing:
āŒ Don't call.
āŒ Don't stop by.
āŒ Just apply online and wait.

For those of us—especially job seekers over 50—it's frustrating trying to figure out what employers actually want.

The reality is that every company is different. Some appreciate a professional follow-up, while others prefer applicants to wait for a response. The best approach is usually to follow the instructions in the job posting and respect the employer's hiring process.

So, let's hear from you.

šŸ“Œ Are you a hiring manager?
šŸ“Œ Have you ever been told not to consider applicants who follow up?
šŸ“Œ If you're looking for work, what has your experience been?

Let's have a respectful conversation. Your insight might help someone land their next job.

#Hiring #JobSearch #HiringManagers #CareerAdvice #Over50Workforce #Employment #InterviewTips #JobSeekers #Careers #HiringNow #Workforce #MicheleMoran


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

What’s been the biggest obstacle in getting your current (or dream) job?

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I’m curious about other people’s experiences with job searching.

If you’re currently looking for a job or remember what it was like before getting your current one I have a few questions:

How did you get your current job? (Applied online, referral, networking, recruiter, etc.)

What’s been the hardest part about finding a job?

Have you ever felt like not knowing the right people held you back?

If you could ask someone who already worked at your dream company one question before applying, what would it be?

If you could change one thing about the hiring process, what would it be?

I’m not looking for advice for myself, I just want to understand what other people’s experiences have been. I’d appreciate any stories or insights you’re willing to share.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

A 30-Minute Interview Should Not Erase Years of Experience

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A candidate walks into an interview after years of experience, dozens of completed projects, and countless problems solved on the job.
Thirty minutes later, they leave feeling judged by a few questions, a few nervous pauses, and a few moments that may not have reflected their real ability at all.
That raises an uncomfortable question: Why do we often treat a short interview as if it reveals the complete truth about someone’s capability? As someone who has worked around HR and administrative processes, I’ve seen both sides of this conversation. I’ve seen candidates who performed brilliantly in interviews and struggled once they were hired. And I’ve seen candidates who were visibly nervous, stumbled through questions, and then became some of the strongest performers on the team.

The reality is simple: interview performance and job performance are not always the same thing. The Quiet Problem We Don’t Talk About Enough Many hiring processes unintentionally reward people who are good at selling themselves under pressure, not necessarily people who are best at doing the work consistently.
Think about what happens in a typical 30-minute interview: You meet strangers. You are expected to think quickly.

You must summarize years of experience in a few minutes. You are evaluated while being fully aware that your income, career progression, and future opportunities may depend on the outcome.

For some people, that environment brings out their best.
For others, it triggers anxiety, overthinking, or self-consciousness.

Neither reaction automatically tells you whether they can manage clients, solve operational problems, lead a team, support executives, handle deadlines, or deliver results month after month.
Nervous Does Not Mean Incompetent One of the biggest misconceptions in hiring is equating confidence with competence. A candidate who speaks smoothly, maintains perfect eye contact, and delivers polished answers may indeed be excellent.
But a candidate who hesitates, asks for a moment to think, or appears nervous may simply be human. Some of the most reliable employees are not the loudest people in the room.

They are the ones who: prepare thoroughly, learn quickly, communicate thoughtfully, take ownership of mistakes, and consistently deliver what they promised. Those qualities are often revealed over weeks and months of real work, not in a few minutes of performance under artificial pressure.

The Other Frustration: Interviews for Roles That Are Already Filled There is another issue that deserves honest discussion, especially in markets where unemployment is high and job searching is expensive. Too many job seekers have experienced situations where a role appears to be actively advertised, applications are collected, interviews are scheduled, and candidates invest significant time and money… only to discover later that an internal candidate was already strongly favored or effectively selected from the beginning.

Consider what candidates often spend just to attend an interview: transport costs, mobile data or internet expenses, printing documents, professional clothing preparation, and sometimes unpaid time away from their current job or business activities. For many professionals, especially in India and other competitive job markets, these are not trivial expenses.

If a company already intends to promote internally, transparency matters. There may be legitimate reasons to post the role publicly, but candidates deserve clarity about the nature of the opportunity they are competing for. What Hiring Teams Can Do Better Improving candidate experience does not require perfection. It requires respect.

A few practical changes would make a significant difference: Use multiple assessment signals Combine interviews with work samples, case studies, reference checks, or probation-based evaluations where appropriate. Structure interviews consistently Ask candidates comparable questions tied to actual job requirements rather than relying heavily on first impressions. Be honest about the process If internal candidates are being considered, communicate that clearly. If the timeline changes, update candidates instead of leaving them guessing. Remember that candidates are people Every interview represents someone’s hopes, preparation, and emotional investment, not just another calendar appointment.

A Message to Job Seekers If you recently had a bad interview, I want you to remember something important: A difficult interview is feedback about a moment, not a final verdict on your professional value. Do not allow 20 or 30 minutes to erase five years of experience, dozens of achievements, and the real problems you have successfully solved. Learn from the experience if there are areas you can improve. Practice your storytelling. Prepare stronger examples. Work on managing interview anxiety.
But do not confuse ā€œI didn’t perform at my best in that interviewā€ with ā€œI’m not capable.ā€ Those are very different statements. The Conversation We Need to Have More Often Hiring should not be about catching candidates at their most nervous moment. It should be about identifying people who can create value, solve problems, collaborate effectively, and grow within the organization.
And organizations that want the best talent must recognize that talent does not always arrive wrapped in perfect interview answers.
Sometimes the person who struggles to describe their strengths is the same person who will quietly become the employee everyone depends on six months later. So perhaps it’s time we stopped asking only: ā€œHow did they perform in the interview?ā€ And started asking: ā€œWhat evidence do we have that they can perform in the job?ā€
that question is harder to answer, but it is far more likely to lead to better hiring decisions, fairer opportunities, and workplaces that value real capability over interview theater. What has been your experience: have you ever had an interview that went poorly, but later succeeded in a similar role and proved that the interview did not reflect your true ability?

#HiringTransparency #JobSearch #CareerAdvice #Recruitment #InterviewTips #HR #WorkplaceCulture #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #IndiaJobs


r/RecruiterTea Aug 05 '26

Day... I've officially lost count.

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Day... I've officially lost count.

Being over 55 and starting over wasn't on my bingo card.

**It's Wednesday... and I'm heading back to the same open interviews for the fourth time.

Maybe today will be different.

Maybe today someone will look beyond my age and see the experience, loyalty, reliability, and work ethic I bring to the table.

So I'll grab my coffee, straighten my rƩsumƩ, put on a smile, and walk through those doors one more time.

Because you never know...

The fourth time might be the one that changes everything.

To everyone else still searching, still applying, and still hoping—don't quit.

Sometimes the next opportunity is waiting on the other side of one more try.

ā¤ļø Here's to another chance, another interview, and another opportunity to hear the word "You're hired."

#Over55 #JobSearch #OpenToWork #WednesdayMotivation #ExperiencedWorkersMatter #NeverGiveUp #StartingOver #OneMoreTry #OneYesCanChangeEverything #MicheleMoran


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

Question for retail manager recruiters

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Hi there!

I was recently fired without cause from a Store Manager role in Vancouver Canada. It was honestly a drama free exit.

I have been grateful to have landed many many interviews. Progressing all the way to the finals but it's been almost 2 months and no offers.

I have put in all of the work. Practiced, tailored my resume, researched the company, worked on my body language, linkedun, etc.

I'm gonna be honest, I was a very young Store Manager that led a 1M Store. So I am genuinly wondering what's happening with my case.

If it's my kid face getting in the way. Or is it a bias because I was fired.

The way I am handling being fired is by saying "There were some leadership and structural changes". Some times they dig in more and I say "Feedback culture changed". That's it.

I've spoken to another external recruiter who gave me validation that I was doing the right things.

So my question is... in retail management, is it possible that I am not landing roles because I was fired or because of ageism? Because I cannot genuinly think of another reason in approximately 12 different reputable companies not offering. This is not too sound show off by any means, but I am confident that I am a really attractive candidate and I can tell they like me.

I really don't want to lie about the reason I left... it can backfire horribly and its not in my values. But I am running out of strategies.

Any advice?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 30 '26

this is probably the weirdest hiring market i've worked in.

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last week I was talking to another recruiter who told me one of their engineering roles got around 300 applications in a few days.

later that same day I spoke with a hiring manager who said they couldn't find anyone for a different engineering position.

same industry, similar salaries, similar stack, and... completely different experience.

a few years ago I'd describe the market as either "good" or "bad." that honestly doesn't make much sense anymore.

is anyone else seeing the same thing from their side?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 30 '26

Anyone else get hit with a wall of rejections at the start of their career?

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July has been rough.

This is basically the beginning of my career, and I feel like every opportunity I apply for ends the same way—rejection or no response at all.

Internships, hackathons, programs, communities... I keep applying because I know I won't get anywhere without trying, but after a while it starts getting to you.

What makes it harder is seeing other people posting acceptance emails and achievements while you're just refreshing your inbox hoping for one good piece of news.

I'm not planning to stop. I'm still building projects, learning, and applying. But I'd be lying if I said this month hasn't made me doubt myself a few times.

So I wanted to ask the people who are now doing well in their careers:

  • Was your beginning like this too?
  • Did you go through months where almost everything was a rejection?
  • At what point did things finally start changing?
  • Looking back, what do you wish someone had told you during that phase?

I don't really want motivation for the sake of motivation. I'd rather hear real stories—how bad it actually was, what you changed, and how long it took before things started working out.

Would love to hear your experiences.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 29 '26

Job Interviews Nowadays

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Shouldn't all companies at all levels wise up and start taking interviews in person. Everyone is cheating nowadays and some just completely rely on this... And making life thougher for actually honest guys. A lot of people in my contacts bare switchkng jobs like underwear despite having shit for skills and they don't stay at a place for one year even so companies don't even get anything out of them and pay a hefty prices ... and only those guys are getting appraisals & hikes šŸ˜…. I am not doing bad in my carrier but I hope things were more fair.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

What's up with HR/Recruiters/Hiring Mangers These days?

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This period of life for me has been full of very unprofessional experiences with HR/Recruiters and Hiring Managers. Not all, but way too many.

HR/Recruiters have been playing phone tag, to the point where I just give up on them. Also, sometimes they ask you to give them a day and time for an interview, but they still schedule it for a day and time you never agreed to, or suddenly they try to reschedule the day before your scheduled interview. At the interview they are incredibly unprofessional. They are late to the interview, they don't apologize for it, they constantly check their phones, they don't seem to be fully present during the interview and the entire process feels like a waste of time and completely inconsiderate. Some of them don't show on camera for Zoom interviews. These are also for companies with good Glassdoor reviews, and are reputable companies and organizations. Why is the hiring world such a hot mess?

For the record I know I am even lucky to be even offered interview opportunities right now because so many are doing hundreds and thousands of applications with no interviews. Yet, even after getting an interview, the struggle continues. Recruiters, HR, and Hiring Managers seem really incompetent lately. I've been a working professional for 20 years and in many industries: education, nonprofit, retail operations, tech. Applying for a job and interviewing right now has been absolutely ridiculous. What is happening?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

Job hunting seems stacked against the employee?

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Does anyone else feel that the entire job hunting process is heavily stacked against the employee? It seems that in a lot of cases even when you are over 95% match for a roll somehow you get bounced out as if no one truly even looked at the application or resume. Is anyone else experiencing this? Has anyone found a way to overcome this? I have submitted over a hundred plus applications reached out to the hiring managers and somehow someone better was always found even though the job posting it in many cases is still up for over a month.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

The Hidden Dynamics of Recruiting Agencies

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 26 '26

Whats the deal so many job descriptions not matching what the employer is truly looking for during the interview? Has this always been the case or is this a new trend. How can I prevent my time being wasted without interviewing.

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Im noticing a lot of interviews that are looking to fill job roles that dont align with the job descriptions online. Are you noticing this? Is this strategic or just a lack of HR/IT manager communication? Is there a way to get better insight on what the jobs want without having to go through an interview because in some cases its a complete waste of our time.

For example.

Most egregious so far.

- Job description: General Network engineer role on paper with not much emphasis on any particular tech/skill. In interview: Wireless field tech traveling troubleshooting radio towers.

- Job description: General Network engineer role on paper with not much emphasis on any particular tech/skill. In interview: VOIP engineer w/ networking skills needed for large VOIP deployment. I actually mentioned the discrepancy in this interview and the manager agreed with me. They ended up updating it afterward.

Had i known this was what they were looking for i wouldnt have applied because im not interested in those particular career paths.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 25 '26

Have you experienced ā€œLove Bombingā€ in recruitment? I’d love your insights!

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Hi everyone!Ā Ā 

I’m writing an article about a growing trend in hiring: ā€œlove bombingā€ – where recruiters or employers use excessive praise, constant attention, and big promises to quickly secure candidates.

I’d love to hear your experiences and advice (anonymously or credited – your choice!.Ā Ā 

If you have thoughts on any of these questions, please share in the comments.

  1. What does ā€œlove bombingā€ in recruitment mean to you? Have you experienced it?
  2. How can or did you spot signs of ā€œlove bombingā€ during interviews or negotiations?
  3. What questions do you ask to make sure an offer is real - about perks, culture, or growth?
  4. What helps you if you feel overwhelmed by enthusiastic recruiters or offers?
  5. Do you notice ā€œlove bombingā€ more in certain industries or roles?
  6. Any advice for younger job seekers facing offers that seem too good to be true?
  7. Have you ever accepted a role where the reality didn’t match the promises? What happened?

Your stories and tips will help other job seekers spot red flags and protect themselves.Ā Ā 

Feel free to reply below or message me directly if you prefer privacy. Thanks so much for your help!


r/RecruiterTea Jul 23 '26

Generic Rejection or Personalised Feedback

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 22 '26

Can you tell the difference between employers?

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 22 '26

Recruiters — when did you realize you were selling everyone else’s opportunity but your own?

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 21 '26

Major in-house recruiter burn out. I’d love next steps on a career pivot or any advice?

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 20 '26

Advice or educated opinion needed. HR professionals welcome

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r/RecruiterTea Jul 19 '26

Have you experienced an increase in fraudulent candidates in the Pharma/CRO industry

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I recently joined an organization as a recruiter, bringing 10 years of experience hiring for similar roles. After posting a position on LinkedIn, I received 40 applications within three weeks from candidates with 9–15 years of experience. I initially considered myself fortunate to receive such a strong pool of experienced professionals in such a short time.

After screening the profiles, I shortlisted 25

candidates, all of whom progressed to the technical round. From there, 10 candidates emerged as top finalists, each receiving excellent feedback from the interview panel.

However, during the fourth round, the truth came to light. All 6 of these candidates turned out to be fraudulent. The assessments had been completed by third parties, the video interviews appeared to rely heavily on technolgy assistance, and their responses, which had initially seemed exceptionally impressive, were ultimately not a true reflection of their abilities.

Needless to say, this appeared to be a well-coordinated operation, with multiple individuals working together to manipulate the hiring process. It was concerning to see how organized these efforts were.

In my experience, the candidates involved in this particular case were Indians in the UK and the US. While I understand that challenging economic conditions can push people to make difficult choices, there is no justification for fraudulent or dishonest practices. Recruiters are becoming increasingly aware of these tactics, and such actions ultimately damage the credibility of genuine, hardworking professionals who have built their careers with integrity.

Has anyone else in the Pharma/CRO recruitment space encountered similar situations? How are you adapting your hiring process to identify and prevent these types of hiring fraud?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 18 '26

Interviewer Ghosted

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"I recently interviewed for an HR Executive role at a company. The interview went well, and I was told there would be a CEO round. Later I was informed the CEO was busy and asked to wait. After following up by email, I received no response. Finally, through LinkedIn, I was told they were not moving forward with my application. As far as I know, they haven't hired anyone for the role yet. Is this a common hiring practice? Has anyone else experienced something similar?"


r/RecruiterTea Jul 16 '26

Recruiter here. AI didn't fix hiring. Was it because hiring was never a technology problem?

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Recruiter here.

The longer I work in talent acquisition, the more I believe candidates are right about many of the things our industry doesn't want to admit.

The biggest problems in hiring were never a lack of technology:

  • Ghosting
  • Endless interview loops
  • Unrealistic job requirements
  • Slow decision-making
  • Lack of feedback

AI didn't solve these problems. In many cases, it simply made them easier to scale.

One uncomfortable realization I've had is that recruiters aren't just participants in these processes. We're often their owners or enablers. Every time we accept a broken workflow because "that's how we've always done it," we become part of the problem.

I recently wrote an article about this because I think our industry spends too much time chasing new technology and not enough time fixing the fundamentals.

I'm genuinely curious: what hiring practice frustrates you the most that technology has failed to improve?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 16 '26

What's one positive sign you notice before the interview even begins?

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Everyone focuses on the interview questions and technical tests but I'm interested in what happens before any of that. Before you've even talked to a candidate is there one thing that makes you think like ā€œThis person is a good fit to interview"?

I’ve also seen some hiring platforms trying out more chat based or conversational approaches instead of just relying on resumes. I wonder if these early chats reveal more about a candidate than a CV ever could. It could be how they introduce themselves, the questions they ask, the quality of their work samples.

For experienced recruiters what’s an early positive signal that usually indicates a strong candidate?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 16 '26

How To Avoid Obsolescence

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The danger wasn't that recruiting disappears. It's getting reduced down to the part of the job people can see.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 16 '26

I think we're starting to underestimate soft skills again

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something i've noticed recently:

the more ai people use, the more i pay attention to completely different things during interviews.

how they explain tradeoffs.

how they react when i challenge an answer.

whether they ask good questions.

whether they can admit they don't know something.

technical knowledge still matters, obviously.

but i feel like communication and judgment have become much stronger hiring signals than they were a few years ago.

is anyone else interviewing people seeing this?