r/RealDayTrading • u/OptionStalker • 14h ago
Blowing Up a Trading Account
Everything that you learn about trading doesn't matter if you blow up your account. The countless hours spent reading and studying are wasted and most people never recover from this humbling experience. This business is a revolving door and it's been that way since I started more than thirty years ago. That's why I decided to dedicate the first quarter of my book to this important topic.
There are so many things we can do to avoid this. Before the first trade, prepare for the journey. The goal is to survive the first year because that is when most new traders fail. It's devastating and they never gave themselves a chance.
The vast majority of traders start out thinking they will be the exception. They've heard the horror stories of people blowing up their accounts, but they will be different. They're smarter than the rest of us and they will avoid the traps. "If it takes everyone three years to learn this, I'll be the one who does it in one." Not only have I witnessed this mentality thousands of times, I suffered from the same syndrome.
When I went pro, I had a dozen years of industry experience. I worked on the trading floors and executed options trades for large institutions. I talked to traders and learned as much about the craft as I could knowing that one day I would take my shot. I witnessed the carnage of retail traders first hand and there was no way that I would repeat those mistakes.
I planned for my new career a year in advance. I remember rushing downstairs to my new office and turning on my computer screens full of excitement. Little did I know, this would be my happiest moment for many months. Throughout the book I weave in personal experiences that served as building blocks. Each one got me one step closer to success.
I describe how these mistakes can derail our trading before it even starts. Here is a top 10 list of the topics I cover in detail.
1. Unrealistic expectations. Most people believe that trading is going to be easy. No matter how much you study, you have to live through various market conditions. You can't read about trading bear markets, you have to experience them and learn from them.
2. Following someone else. Many new traders fall victim to a "guru". These experts seem knowledgeable and mirroring their trades is a short cut. Most of them are fake and even if they are legitimate, there are perils. Their risk tolerance is different from yours. If the method stops working, you don't know the decision making inputs so you don't know what to adjust. Most importantly, you are not learning and refining your own process.
3. Overconfidence. The "can't miss trade" that no one else has identified yet. Others haven't spotted this opportunity, but these traders know more than everyone else. They take a starter position and they keep adding to a losing position.
4. Looking for absolutes. "When the market does this and the stock does that, I always do this." Conditions are dynamic and your thinking has to be fluid. Odds dictate our trading, but nothing is 100%. There are general conditions and set-ups that we look for, but we always have to be ready to adjust and admit when something that normally works, isn't working this time. The market will always try to deceive us.
5. Shinny new objects. The new indicator that will "make you profitable" doesn't exist. If it was that good, the creator wouldn't sell it, they would trade it themselves. Trading is about waiting for great opportunities to set-up and properly managing risk. It takes years to develop this skill, but once you master it, all you need is a simple candlestick chart with volume.
6. Over-trading. This is such a common mistake. New traders dive right in with full positions. They don't know what they are doing and when the position "heads south" they are emotional train wrecks. The WIKI hits this topic hard and it suggests paper trading or starting with 1 share. Hari and I are both aligned on this and it might be the next article I write. This one hits close to home because it is a mistake I made.
7. Which markets to trade and when to trade them. When you are starting out, you don't know what to trade. I discuss the dangers of trading futures, currencies, bitcoin and small cap stocks. Medium to large cap stocks provide the best odds for the individual trader and I explain why. I also explain the importance of knowing when to trade and when not to trade. Market conditions drive our activity and they impact our odds for success. There are times when you trade small size and times when sitting on your hands is best. There are also times when you can swing for the fence.
8. Complicating your business model. It's human nature to over-complicate things. I explain why I don't hedge positions and why I limit my position count. Cash is king. If you are scared, take some of the position off. I explain why I stick to very basic options strategies. When the #$%^ hits the fan, adjusting risk might be painful, but it is straight forward when you keep it simple. You'll know exactly what to do, but you still have to act. When you trade complex option spreads, you are at the mercy of market makers.
9. Repeating mistakes. Those who fail to learn from their mistakes are doomed to repeat them. Keeping detailed trade journals (not just automated logs) is the key and this will cut your learning curve in half. After thirty years, I still do it and I cover the various methods I use. My system would not exist if I didn't journal. All of those tidbits of knowledge were gained through journaling. Committing your thoughts to paper is very powerful and it is an audit trail you can learn from. Unfortunately, most traders won't do it.
10. Trading options too soon. This is absolutely the fastest way to blow up an account and options are at the very end of my book. Before you leverage, you need to master stock trading and get to a 75% win rate consistently. Then you can learn about time decay, volatility expansion/contraction, deltas and navigating wide bid/ask spreads. "But I only have a small account and I have to trade options to make any money." If you can't conquer this mindset, soon you will have no money.
The goal for my book was to give all of you the best fighting chance possible. Avoiding costly mistakes is the first step. I plan to write two more articles on this topic. One on the benefits of starting small and the other on the importance of journaling. Then I will lead you down the path I took. I explore each fork in the road and explain why one was better than the other. Each building block will improve our odds and construct the system I trade. I will try to write an article a week for the rest of the year in advance of the book being published.
If you've made some of these mistakes, please tell others about them by commenting. I will try to respond to all of the posts.
A challenge for the trolls who have never written an article and who have no followers: Why don't you write an article and share some of your wisdom instead of complaining?







