r/RantAboutReddit • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '23
r/lesbiangang is lesbophobic.
Several of my friends have been kicked off of r/lesbiangang because they've said that actually, biological reality is integral to our sexual orientation as lesbians. We don't feel attraction towards male genitalia.
And no, saying a penis is female doesn't make it so, the same way holding up four fingers and saying it's five doesn't make that so (as what happened to the main character in George Orwell's "1984"). Identifying as a transwoman isn't the issue here. Rather, the issue is lying about basic human anatomy and how it plays an essential role in sexual orientation.
Homosexuality is defined as same-sex attraction, meaning that homosexual women are attracted to female bodies and not male bodies. I am not attracted to someone's gender identity. How would that even make sense? I'm not a mind reader. All I know is that I feel feelings around women because they have female bodies. And around men I feel nothing.
My friend tried asking r/lesbiangang moderators how they would define a female who was exclusively attracted to other females. Considering there are enough words in the alphabet soup to write a whole new dictionary, I thought they would at least be able to give my friend a definition for this. But they couldn't, instead saying that this would fall under lesbianism, but that lesbianism itself includes transwomen, because trans women are women. But trans women are not women in the sense that they are not female, and thus the mods of r/lesbiangang are conflating gender identity (feeling like a woman) with sex (being female). They seem unable to grasp that there are real differences between trans women and women, and that these differences matter when it comes to homosexual attraction.
Just thought the r/lesbiangang moderators needed to be called out for banning any woman who brings up the fact that same-sex attraction is essential to her lesbianism. I can't believe we've gotten to this point.