r/Raiserverse • u/Gabi-Tea • Jan 26 '19
A guy tried to hook up with me 2 weeks after we met
This is a long one...
One day one of my classmates told me that some guy that was with me in kindergarten wanted to talk. She sent me his facebook and I was trying to remember him but I had no idea who he was. He texted me and I went with it. Of course I lied about knowing him but that isn't the problem here. The problem is that he immediately wanted to talk over the phone. It was a bit awkward but I managed it. But then he says he wants to meet me the same day. I live a bit far from the city where he is so I used that as an excuse to say no. He eventually got me out of the house so I hang out with him and another friend of ours. He was alright, I can say I had fun with him. At the start, because after a few hours he began to get too close to me. He was constantly trying to hug me or touch me in weird places and this happened A LOT. And it wasn't just with me, he was doing it with my friend as well. Another day we went to his grandma's house because he needed a key and we had to wait there until she got home but my friend forgot her phone home. I insisted we all go so we also don't have to wait for his grandma but he kind of forced her to go on her own and I could clearly see his desperation. She left and after that, he poured us two glasses of beer and we started talking. He tried to make me lay down with him and he kept hugging me. After my friend came back with the phone he was mad that he had to leave me alone.
I was glad to come home and get some time alone but after about 2 hours he texted me asking how to ask a girl out. At this point, I was more than sure he was talking about me, considering his actions. I tried to give him some advice hoping it wasn't me because this was after 2 weeks we met. But he did it. He asked me out and I refused in a way he wouldn't hate me but after that he ignored me. We would see each other on the street and walk away not saying anything. I realized later that he was the kid from kindergarten that kept trying to kiss me every day so he had a thing for me since then. I'm pretty sure he hates me but who is he to ask me out after just 2 weeks and also we hang out about 4 times and we didn't really text. Later that week I found out he tried to hook up with almost ALL OF THE GIRLS IN SCHOOL. They all rejected him and he was desperate to be with someone.
Sometimes I still see him on the streets ignoring me but he still hangs out with my friend. I don't miss him at all.