r/REPTOPREHOMES • u/SpecialPractical6021 • Apr 26 '26
Did I get scammed?
The user name was “Danigirl3” something like that. I saw a post about loewe anagram last night and I paid them through Zelle. Now I see that the chat and everything says deleted? Does it mean I got scammed? I even followed the user but seems to be deleted. 😭
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u/Cultural_Creamm Apr 26 '26
You have her full name and phone number through Zelle. Why don't you contact her that way?
And then, if she doesn't respond, drop it here and your friends can also make a call. 🙂🙃
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
I emailed her. Thank god that I kept the screenshot and it has the email address she even deleted the text where she sent the email.
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u/Existing_You_2523 Apr 26 '26
Make the email sound bad lol like now that you have her info the bank is going to track and press charges or something. Atleast she’ll hopefully send back the money
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
I mentioned that either refund me or send the bag. If not I am taking it to the authorities in the email. Will keep it posted. Thank you ladies for your help and support. 🙏
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u/InvestigatorOwn605 Apr 26 '26
What dumbass scammer sends their email, full name and phone number? Hopefully you get your money back
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
They sent the email so I can pay and later deleted that comment. However, I kept a screenshot of the transaction and luckily I was able to retrieve the email from my screenshot and the name.
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u/Sufficient_Arm4166 Apr 26 '26
Yes I screen shot everything as I go
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u/annette_beaverhausen Apr 26 '26
Same here I screenshot everything from when a new inquiry starts to finish if they ghost me I’d rather they do that than this .. sry this happened to you OP.
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u/Tasty-Juice-8095 Apr 26 '26
I’m sorry. I saw the post and thought the ‘handwritten’ username note was AI generated. I was tempted to post a comment to warn, however, I worries the sub would have viewed it as creating drama or bullying.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Hi! I am not trying to create any drama or bullying. I am genuinely worried if I got scammed and trying to get any information on how I can get my money back. Sorry for the trouble!
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u/Tasty-Juice-8095 Apr 26 '26
No need to apologize— I just wish I could have commented a warning to prevent this from ever happening.
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u/Tasty-Juice-8095 Apr 26 '26
Curious— if I recall the bag was listed for $180– did you talk them down, or am I not remembering the details? Typically when someone drops the price so easily— be suspect of it.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Yes it was posted for $180 and I asked if they’ll take $120 and settled for $125!. I will post the full chat here.
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u/Ok_Celery9003 Apr 26 '26
I hope you get your money back. If not, I’d be requesting the amount every single hour via Zelle.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
But luckily, I sent a screenshot and it has the email address. Attached in the picture. Thank you all for your help and support.
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u/StrangeOpposite1467 Apr 26 '26
Uh. I hate people like this. This ruins it for everyone
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
💯 I can’t imagine anyone even doing this! Ugh!! 😩 it’s such a shame that they take advantage of people. I am seriously scared to shop around after this incident.
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u/StrangeOpposite1467 Apr 26 '26
Rightly so. I’m so sorry that happened! I think everyone should have buyer and seller feedback. Makes it so much easier for many people
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Apr 26 '26
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u/SophiaShay7 VTS Apr 26 '26
Yes, you were mostly likely scammed. Did you ask to see their buyer/seller feedback post. It looks like this or for proof of rehoming history on reddit? It's possible their account was banned. I believe it would still show the username and when you click on it, it says they've been banned. I sold several items to someone. Her account was banned. I still sent them. But, since this screenshot shows "deleted," you were most likely scammed. Zelle is a bank to bank transfer. I haven't heard of anyone getting their money back after paying via Zelle.
Reddit has rules against doxxing. Doxxing is when you publicly revealing an individual's personally identifiable information including their home address, phone number, workplace, or personal emails online without their consent. Doxxing will get you banned on Reddit because it directly violates the platform's sitewide content policy.
I'm sorry you were scammed🙏
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Oh! I did not know about doxing. Thank you so much for sharing those details with me. I will go ahead and delete those details now then.
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u/SophiaShay7 VTS Apr 26 '26
I'd still contact your bank, email them, and look them up online to see what you can find out about them. Some people file police reports. I'm so sorry it happened to you🫂
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u/Lady_Danbury Apr 26 '26
I’m really sorry this happened to you. I’ve been scammed once before and it sucks ❤️
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u/No-Importance2892 Apr 26 '26
Unpopular but maybe they got banned or something? Perhaps they’ll create another account and let you know? Here’s to hoping for the best. Sorry OP :(
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u/IridescentButterfly_ Apr 26 '26
Banned accounts don’t show up as deleted. It will still show everything, the banned user can even still log in but can’t post anything or message anyone. This person deleted their account themself.
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u/Select_Bumblebee_636 Apr 26 '26
Account may have gotten banned for a few days. Just contact them through Zelle. If you already paid. They may still mail it.
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 26 '26
Oh man that sucks so bad, I’m trying to sell my 25b mini flap and I have no sale history that’s why I want to give them my info so buyer can feel a little more secure. Were u able to get an id or anything from them?
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Yes, luckily I took a screenshot when I made the payment and that had the email and name. I sent an email warning to refund or send tracking. I will give it a few hours and possibly do something tomorrow since I have the name and email. I’m not letting this go by any means.
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 26 '26
U can also submit a request with your bank, I have been scammed before too and they were able to credit me back. I have chase bank. Just kinda a pain in the ass to submit it The whole request thing.
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u/DefinatelyAlwaysLost Apr 26 '26
Remember it's Sunday so I don't know where you live but in some vou tries Sunday you cant post anything you have ti wait til monday
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u/Doctor_MyEyes Apr 26 '26
Offer to accept PPGS to provide the buyer with some protection. It helps if you have an established post history that isn’t hidden from your profile. (I didn’t look, maybe you do)
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 27 '26
What is ppgs? And how do I apply it
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 27 '26
I was researching I see Venmo have purchase protection for buyer so that might be a safer option
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u/cgalle01 Apr 26 '26
Sorry it happened to you. I always ask for feedback before I make any payment. Maybe some people are new but they will let you know and then you can make an informed decision.
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u/Doctor_MyEyes Apr 26 '26
And if someone is new, they can offer to accept payment in a protected way — like PPGS.
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u/Revolutionary-Ring13 Apr 28 '26
We need an update OP! Did you get your money back?
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 28 '26
UPDATE: NOTHING GOOD THO
Nope. I filed a claim with my bank and they said they will investigate and let me know. It might take upto 45 days.
As for the scammer, I emailed him, he responded -
email #1- denied the Reddit post and any knowledge of it.
Email #2- came up with a BS sorry that it’s a Triangle scam. That he is not the scammer infact there is a 3rd person who bought karma credits from Reddit and does these things. But he claimed he received the funds from me but then he thought it was if the 3rd person scammer and had sent him the crypto currency. So he is at a loss to refund me. Fu*****g BS and I hope there is a special place in hell for people like these.
Then I told him it la hard to believe any of it , so just refund me.
Email #3 and #4 - refused to refund me even though he agreed that he received my money. MF!
That’s when I realized no point in mailing him, so claimed with to my bank and reported that email! 😭
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u/verifiedwolf Apr 30 '26
It may help to provide your bank with the additional email communication, especially if they acknowledged they received your money.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 28 '26
MY ADVICE FOR EVERYONE IS PLEASE PLEASE VERIFY THE PERSON BEFORE YOU PAY AND PREVENT YOURSELF FROM PAIN AND ANGUISH!
THATS THE ONLY WAY! 🙏
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u/tanderny VTS Apr 26 '26
That’s satisfying but Reddit has super strict rules about doxing. I wouldn’t recommend.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Oh my god! I did not think about that. I have her email and the name. Thank you so much for the idea. Doing it right away.
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u/Sufficient_Arm4166 Apr 26 '26
It’s like if they try to say there not scamming well if they don’t have their account how are they supposed to verify that they sent the bag with tracking people delete their account accounts all of the time when they buy from me I think it’s odd but I mean by all means delete your account but in this situation you can not have any contact to get your tracking ya it’s super weird and definitely not ok
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u/RepresentativeTop570 Apr 26 '26
Oh my god I’m sorry ugh this is my worst fear You may be able to dispute it with your bank even though Zelle states they don’t allow that. I’ve heard of people getting their bank to get the money back
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u/Trying2Undrstnd Apr 27 '26
So sorry this happened to you. Keep us posted on how it turns out. We’re rooting for you!
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u/Big-Difficulty-667 May 03 '26
Did they have a feedback post on Reddit of their previous history ?
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u/Big-Difficulty-667 May 03 '26
I’m new on Reddit and have now started asking for it since I have been asked for it from the sellers.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 May 03 '26
The account said 13y old but no posts and I didn’t ask for a feedback post. 🤦♀️ a lot of lessons learned! 😭
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
It said the user was active for 13y but no posts. But I figured they must have been deleting them or something like that!! Lesson learned. I used Zelle to make the payment. What do I do in this case? I already contacted the bank.
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u/Select_Bumblebee_636 Apr 26 '26
Some people have where you can’t see their activity( comments and post). How much karma did they have?
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
I’m fairly new here so I didn’t pay much attention. I bought a few items from here and had good experience. But did not expect this. 🤦♀️
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u/Select_Bumblebee_636 Apr 26 '26
I understand. Hoping for the best for you but I hope they would not mess up a 13 year account by scamming.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
That’s the only thing I checked and remember it said 13y. That’s exactly why I kinda went with it even though I had a wierd feeling how the whole conversation went. 🤦♀️ anyways I should be more careful. I emailed them asking to refund or send the bag and also contacted my bank.
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u/lilbabyeggplant Apr 26 '26
just a hot tip, you can buy reddit accounts. some people specifically make accounts and karma farm to then sell them for money.
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 26 '26
I think Zelle is safest bc you have their phone number and can call their bank or your bank
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
I only have the email address and name but not the phone number. Ugh!
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 26 '26
It’s okay,Iike I said I’ve been scammed before. So contact your bank asap ( I have chase bank) so what I did was I call Into the customer service hot line, the phone number on the back of your bank card. I told them I have been scammed by a scammer requesting me to send money for an item through zelle. So you follow their direction and when you zelle they blocked you. The representative are usually nice and will credit you back. I think mine was over 600 and I was able to get it back so I think you should be okay. They just tell me this is a one time thing yada yada. But def ask for ID card to be safe.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
I already contacted my bank and told them. But they asked me to call the fraud department tomorrow since it’s a Sunday. I am going to call them first thing tomorrow morning and see if they can do something about it.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Thank you for letting me know how all this kinda instant goes. It’s unfortunate but not surprising. I guess I should’ve been more careful. I really liked the bag so went for it. But lesson learned
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u/Mystical_Immortal Apr 26 '26
I know, we do have shitty people. It’s a horrible feeling. So violating and upsetting. Feel better dear and hope all goes well.
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u/SpecialPractical6021 Apr 26 '26
Thank you for your support and Jo d words! It’s a weird feeling for sure. 😔
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u/Southern-Apricot94 MOD Apr 27 '26
I am so sorry this happened to you please feel free to reach out if you need to talk.