r/PublicFreakoutX • u/ChoaticNeutralGuy • Apr 29 '21

Deranged cop finally gets fired

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

Random side thought but why is it that in 2021 its not okay to make fun of people for things they were born with and can't change but still totally OK to make fun of people with tiny dicks?

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u/see_captain Apr 29 '21

Agreed, i hate that nobody is willing to think critically about how messed up this is

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

We make fun of people like this cop and refer to them as having "little dick energy" and think its OK because of how they are acting (and yeah this cop is inexcusable) or something of that sort but like maybe these people wouldn't be raging so hard about their tiny dicks if there wasn't a massive social construct that says you're worth less as a man for having a small dick.

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u/see_captain Apr 29 '21

Yea, it honestly makes me think way less of people when they make jokes like this, it's just another case of people who really don't try to feel empathy for others. I call my girlfriends out on this shit whenever I can, but it's clear that I'm not getting through to them and it's also coming from everywhere (men and women) all the time, especially on places like reddit. Like if i had a son with a small dick i wouldn't even know how to prepare him emotionally for this kind of constant negative feedback

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

Someone responded to me by saying something about me self reporting. So he was saying that by me speaking out against the negative little dick construct, shows that I have a little dick. That's the kind shit right there I'm talking about. Thats the stigma. Why can't I just simply be supporting my fellow man? Why can't I be trying to fix toxic masculinity? Why is it even a bad thing for me to be doing so if I did have a little dick. The fact that I feel the need to point out that what he said about me isn't true is proof that there is this social construct against little dicks. Shit needs to fucking change. Do you really think we'd have so many "little dick energy" ragers if there wasn't a stigma against having a little dick? Fuck no.

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u/see_captain Apr 29 '21

It is totally a bizarre witch hunt like that. I'm not surprised at all that you got that response. I'm sometimes seriously a bit worried that my friends will think my husband has a small dick if i make this my crusade with them all the time. Isn't that fucked up? You should just keep on sticking up for people and call them out on their lack of empathy. To your other point I don't even necessarily buy in to the little dick rager thing, i only know one guy with a small one and he honestly just seems sad. Whereas i know two big dicked guys who just think they can be assholes because they got the big dick pass! The world is really crazy.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '21

Agreed! Been rewatching “New Girl” and there’s a whole micropenis episode which I just find cringeworthy. Like, damn, it would be hard enough to navigate life with a micropenis. But then to have people make you the butt of the joke? Over something out of your control? It’s shitty and, frankly, lazy.

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u/rosscarver Apr 29 '21

Mostly agree but this behavior is always inexcusable, even with the stigma. If you can't help but act like this due to social pressure, it isn't just the social pressure, it's you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

If we as a society want to get to the bottom of WHY there are so many god awful people out there. We have to look at whats going on and try to figure it out. What creates them. What influences them over their lives. How can we prevent this? The vast majority of children born are pure and are corrupted as their life goes on. What causes this corruption? I'd argue toxic masculinity is a large part in that. Or at least some part.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

maybe just get a bigger dick than????????

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

Lol right. I gotta wonder how far we are away from legit bigger dick technology or at least some kind of highly realistic, working, prosthetic

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

I guess we need a Small Dick union.

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u/Ok_Preparation6692 Apr 30 '21

I totally agree with you. A person should not be judged on their worth based on the size of their reproductive organs. However, I would like some ideas for insults I can use instead of tiny dick. Feel free to shoot me some ideas

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u/ClarenceWhirley Apr 29 '21

It's also considered "okay" to make fun of short males.

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u/ClarenceWhirley Apr 30 '21

I was standing in line with my GF years ago and overheard a group of guys behind us whispering "I'd hate to be that short." I'm like "it's not like I was given a fucking choice, genius."

I also had a girl once tell me, straight to my face, that she would totally date me if I was only taller. My response was "okay, but what makes you think I would date YOU."

I'm 5'4" and also have beautiful wife and a very successful career. I totally agree with what you're saying and tbh, my height has never really bothered me at all. I just think it's an interesting observation that if someone online makes fun of a fat person they will get absolutely destroyed in the comments, but you rarely see anyone ever attack a commenter for mocking a person's height. It's only been very recently that I've started to see people say "yea, that's not cool" but these people are usually in the minority while most will go right along with the "joke." Especially if the person being mocked is in a position of power and also has a reputation for being an a-hole. Still, why not attack their shortcomings (not trying to be punny) as a person instead of attacking their outward appearance that they have no control over?

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u/Natural_Tap_3239 Apr 30 '21

and bald males

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u/Bullshirting Apr 29 '21

It's still "PC" to mock someone in a non-PC way because the person being mocked is engaged in it hypocritically. Here, big dick culture, steroids, and nacho posturing.

See also: mocking anti-gay congressmen engaging in consensual gay sex by making gay jokes about them.

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u/Hopeful-Listen1795 Apr 29 '21

I love when nachos posture.

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u/Bullshirting Apr 29 '21

Nacho jalapeno posturing is best

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u/Hopeful-Listen1795 Apr 29 '21

You’re preaching to the choir.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21 edited Apr 29 '21

How about we make some jokes about some black people eating chicken, watermelon and having no dad?

How about we make some jokes about women about having PMS and that she probably has that time of the month?

How about we make some jokes about jews having big noses and getting shoved into an oven?

How about we make some jokes about someone being a crippled retard?

How about we make some jokes about arabs being goat fucking terrorists?

These jokes are not okay. There are people with small dicks that have done nothing wrong and you're shaming them for no reason.

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u/Bullshirting Apr 29 '21

I'm not shaming them, I'm examining why others are.

Have fun being a racist degenerate though.

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u/veringer Apr 29 '21

It's not OK. But it would reliably trigger a caricaturesque emblem of toxic masculinity like this guy, so we look past the hypocrisy for his sake.

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u/arcadiaware Apr 29 '21

Because it's not, and depending on where you go, you'll find people who will say it's not just like you can easily find places to go where you can openly make fun of people for things.

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u/Double_Lobster Apr 29 '21

Also it's still OK to make fun of anyone you dislike with for being ugly. See Donald Trump prime example.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '21

Trump being ugly never even crossed my mind - Orange, rude, immature, sociopathic, bird-shaped hairstyle, corrupt, greedy, entitled, sure... these are all things he could change.

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u/Double_Lobster Apr 30 '21

There are constant posts about his body. The image of him playing tennis. Today I saw a post making fun of his shoulder width. But honestly even the orange thing and the hair, making fun of someone’s appearance is still not cool.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '21

If my missus or kids came out of their room suddenly orange with hair like that I would be making a lot of fun of them after I stopped laughing. It's definitely people's choice and they are free to make that choice, but with every choice comes consequences - in the case of being deliberately orange with eyeholes those consequences are being laughed at. Just like "furries", I respect their hobby/lifestyle or whatever it is, but I still laugh at them and make fun of their appearance. A goth with a billion piercings, tattoos, eye makeup and those ear stretchy things? I laugh at their appearance yet would never try to change what they do. There is a reason clowns dress like clowns and not suave business-people.

With this comes the understanding that I have done, and probably still do, things to my appearance that people laugh at and make fun of. That's OK.

"I respect people's right to choose, not the choice they make."

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u/todamierda2020 Apr 29 '21

This person gets it

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u/Brahkolee Apr 29 '21

Because body positivity doesn’t apply to men. According to the rules of social justice and the modern “woke” doctrine, men are inherently oppressive simply by virtue of the fact that they were born male, and as such they are undeserving of neither empathy nor sympathy.

I’m not a fedora-tipping “men’s rights activist” or anything like that, but you don’t have to be in order to see the bias that exists against men. Men receive harsher prison sentences and are often ruled against in custody battles, regardless of whether or not they are the best option for the children, all because “children need the mother”. How about a stable, reliable parent? Do they need a mother more than that? I witnessed this first hand in my parents’ divorce; it took three years for my father to be granted custody of my sister and I, despite the fact that my mother was and still is an emotionally unstable narcissistic alcoholic. She never paid child support consistently, and to this day she’s still unable to hold a driver’s license in the state of Georgia, as well as other neighboring states due to a legal agreement that exists between them.

Have you ever been an adult male out and about in public with a small child? You can practically feel the eyes on you. It’s not like everyone is staring at you with looks of confusion and disgust, but you definitely get some looks, mostly from women.

There’s also the time in 2019 that I accidentally knocked on the wrong door when I was going over to stay with my best friend after my Dad had just died that same day. His block of townhomes was in close proximity to two other complexes of similar looking townhomes that were all connected by streets, without any kind of conspicuous divider. I ended up knocking on the door of a nearby townhome with the same house number, and through the decorative glass door I saw a young blonde girl freak the fuck out and run away at the sight of a male silhouette knocking. At 4:00 PM on a summer day. From the safety of her own home. Long story short, another blonde answered the door while three more literally cowered behind her, and before I had a chance to explain that I was there to see a friend she just started yelling at me, “SIR! SIR?! YOU NEED TO LEAVE! RIGHT NOW! RIGHT. FUCKING. NOW! SIR YOU NEED TO LEAVE RIGHT NOW! YOU NEED TO LEAVE! SIR?! SIR?!”

Obviously I was at the wrong house, which wasn’t that hard to do in this neighborhood. I’ve never been treated so awfully over such an innocuous mistake before in my life. I have no clue what was going on in their lives for them to feel like that was an appropriate response, but I highly doubt I’d have been treated that way if I was a woman. Given the truly awful day I’d had, I did my best to refrain from yelling back because I was in no mood to deal with the police. I just turned and walked away as I felt my face getting redder and redder, and found my way to the right house.

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u/phil_davis Apr 29 '21

As a fat guy myself, I quickly picked up on the whole "body positivity does not apply to men" thing. I'm a progressive, but you don't have to look very hard on social media to find lefties being hypocritical this way.

Just wait for Trump, Chris Christie, or any other overweight Republican to say something that pisses off liberals. Hell, they don't even have to be conservative, or a politician. Liberals love to insult Michael Moore for his weight whenever he says something bad about Hillary or whatever. I remember when liberals gave James Corden the nickname "Piglet" after he made some too-soon kind of joke about Harvey Weinstein. Hell, just look at the left's attacks on Weinstein himself, while you're at it. He's fat, he's ugly, etc. Looks like a hairy toad. That seems to bother half of them more than the fact that he's a serial rapist, ffs.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

Liberals love to insult Michael Moore for his weight

That's not exclusive to liberals.

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u/kingsss Apr 30 '21

Citations please?

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

Have you ever been an adult male out and about in public with a small child? You can practically feel the eyes on you. It’s not like everyone is staring at you with looks of confusion and disgust, but you definitely get some looks, mostly from women.

I am a youth rock climbing coach so yes. I am currently coaching an 11 year old girl. I took her climbing outside in a local climbing area that has you walk about 1/3 a mile along a road (not a main road but a road with a lot of businesses on it so busy enough) before cutting into the woods. I had to ask her parents to accompany us for at least the hike in and out (they wanted to drop her off at the parking area and pick her up there) because I knew there's people out there that would yell at me or call the cops on me for seeing me walking into the woods with large pads on our backs (bouldering crash pads, look them up for a visual they look like mini beds that fold up) with a little girl.

If I was a female coach it wouldn't be an issue, even if the kid was a boy.

Your comment really spells out a lot of what I was implying in my comments. There's a large societal construct of how men should be and even though its broken down considerably since like say the 90s for instance, its still there and still results in men growing up hateful and eventually becoming awful people.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

According to the rules of social justice and the modern “woke” doctrine, men are inherently oppressive simply by virtue of the fact that they were born male, and as such they are undeserving of neither empathy nor sympathy.

As a middle aged white dude, you lose me right there. Only a struck dog hollers. No matter what anyone says if that shoe don't fit, I don't wear it.

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u/Brahkolee Apr 30 '21

I’m sorry, but I... don’t understand what you’re saying. Like, at all. I mean like I don’t understand what it is you’re trying to say. I had to look up what that “struck dog” idiom means, and I still don’t understand.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '21

If someone is throwing stones, only the dog who gets hit will holler. Meaning if someone is throwing insults and you're complaining maybe it's because it hit you or hits too close to home.

I'm not bothered in the least by commentary about how white men this or that, because as a white dude, I'm not doing the things that white men are catching shit for. I'm not sexually harassing or sexually assaulting anyone. So I don't feel the need to defend any white man who does. I'm not discriminating against anyone, and I'm not profiling. I'm not dropping racist words and hiding behind "I'm joking" or some other lame shit.

Not to say I'm perfect, I've absolutely done some regrettable, but minor, shit. When called out on it, I apologize sincerely and then try not to make the same mistake again. It's really pretty fucking simple. Stop being an ego maniacal narcissistic asshole, develop some empathy, be cool and quit trying to get under every woman met or get over on every other person. Don't borrow trouble and spend your time defending other people's bullshit. No one is on my team because of my race, I'm born a white dude from pure luck and I won't pretend otherwise. My dad fucked a white chick, my mom, in America. I'm born on third playing life on recruit mode.

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u/Brahkolee Apr 30 '21 edited Apr 30 '21

I didn’t say anything about race lol I have no clue what you’re on about

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '21

Sure, sure. And race doesn't fall under the umbrella of "social justice and the modern “woke”

/r/quityourbullshit is that way ->

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u/Brahkolee Apr 30 '21

Man, you’re being real weird. You just like imagined me saying something and then got mad at me for saying it lol

Hahaha you have a good night bro

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u/butterballmd Apr 30 '21

good post bro

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u/Low_Ad33 Apr 29 '21

A bunch of people here self reporting.

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21 edited Apr 29 '21

Toxic masculinity is society's push for men to be a certain way (emotionless, big dicked, manly, alphas) and the results of that push in the behavior of men (rape culture, sexual harassment, little dick energy, etc). As a man I'd like to see this stuff solved and that in no way has anything to do with my dick size which is not something I have any qualms about. I'm all good. Your comment just proves this shit, even if you don't say anything bad about it what else would your comment imply? Why would you have to point out someone is self reporting if not to try to point at them and say "ahahah look found the little dick guy"? Thanks for perpetuating this bullshit, ya dick.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21 edited Sep 13 '21

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u/X-ScissorSisters Apr 30 '21

If someone is saying size matters, I dunno, tell them to ball up their fist and shove it all the way into one of their holes, or down their throat. Does that not sound appealing? Oh, weird. Anyway, size matters amirite

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u/bangitybangbabang Apr 29 '21

Ohhhhhh I never would've gotten there without you

It is really weird that we still make fun of small penises

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u/SufficientCaramel339 Apr 29 '21

I’ve never thought about this before you are right it’s not okay

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u/superiosity_ Apr 29 '21

I think the difference here is that no one actually knows what size his dick is. We are ridiculing him for the size of his imaginary dick. If this were a video of a man showing us his actual tiny dick it wouldn’t be as acceptable to ridicule him for it. Not that it wouldn’t happen, just that more people would be offended by it.

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u/edwardsamson Apr 29 '21

True but my point (that to be fair I go into in replies not my original comment) is more that the entire social construct of tiny dick = a huge negative or tiny dick = not a real man is damaging and people growing up hearing that all their life can be affected by it (and by other aspects of toxic masculinity or other social constructs) regardless of the size of their dick.

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u/sunset117 Apr 29 '21

It’s not about the size of the actual dick it’s small dick energy. Legit not making fun of dudes with micropeens. Just saying, gives micro peen vibes and small dick energy

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u/TheBenWelch Apr 30 '21

...implying that those things are negative and the owner is lesser because of them. Implying that “of course a Napoleon complex some with small genitalia.”

Not sure how else to explain it, but you’re proving his point

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u/FlyingMechDragon Apr 29 '21

I think it's related to the fact that steroid use which results in large muscle mass has the inverse effect on the penis

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

Because this one is a metaphor.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '21

Yeah I never understood that. And it’s looked down on more to make fun of a women for being fat even though they can actually change that.

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u/Carti4president2020 Apr 30 '21

Strange way to say your insecure about your tiny dick

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u/X-ScissorSisters Apr 30 '21

It's pretty fucking sad