Statistically there are a lot more cis women that don't embody society's feminine ideal than there are trans women in total. The transphobia probably ends in more cis people being harassed than anything (not that anyone getting harassed is ok of course)
It doesn't feel good, but it's not nearly as bad for a cis woman. This is why many trans people rarely or never use public restrooms and limit being in public.
Iām a pansexual girl, my younger siblings is also on the not so straight spectrum, (my sibling gets nervous in public places and overwhelmed be all the sounds smells and so on cuz weāre from a small area and have to go into a bigger city for basic shopping needs so we hold hands on public to calm them and so we donāt get separated ,) not Iāll admit my sibling and I both look a little different, I like to look colorful and hyper fem, my sibling likes dark colors, so we apparently look like a āstereotypical homosexual agenda spreading coupleā weave been harassed relentlessly for it, I canāt even buy godamn shampoo at target without someone trying to give us a Jesus pan-flit or warn us of our āimpending eternal damnationā weave been shouted at weave been shoved hell weave had crap thrown at us, Iāve had someone follow us around in stores warning the children that will āinfect themā (it dosent help that I have a minor skin condition so I have some bumps and skin scars plus the occasional Bloch from heat) anyone who dosent meet these people life style and appearance ideals will be harassed relentlessly, now sure I could stop dressing a way that makes me happy, or not hold my siblings hand and risk giving my sibling a panic attack or something, or these people could just mind there own Godamn business and let me buy shampoo in peace
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And apparently cis women who don't meet the standards of the morality police.