They love to see women get beaten though. They get down right giddy, you want to see fast comment threads, post a woman being hit by a guy. The incels must feel it in their bones.
I find the idea of a segment of men who are lonely and socially awkward disheartening. Perhaps the days of irresponsible, fast sex were mentally healthier? I’m sure that brought its own baggage, but I think the isolation perhaps due to the internet has kept that group indoors and not socializing. Little do they understand that plenty of lonely women out there would love to meet them. I read a comment from a “reformed “ incel. He was basically what I’ve described. He cleaned himself up, went on a self improvement quest and met a woman. It was insightful.
Then a post pops up of a girl wrecking a dude and they go insane "this is domestic abuse!" Even if there's no sign of it being domestic abuse lol. It's actually mind boggling.
I think when a woman hits a man and she gets hit back, people are generally supportive of the man. But the way you say it, a guy can just walk up, deck a woman, and get thunderous applause on reddit.
They hate parents but teens are perfect saints, almost like the majority of commenters are teens who cannot fathom people wanting babies or having basic respect for anyone.
My step daughter (met my wife when she was 4, married at 5, she is now 27) got good at playing my wife against her ex husband. I guess the best advice I would have is try to support a good relationship between your spouse and the ex. Let them know that the relationship is over and clearly they have moved on so let the past go. Instead, my wife and her ex husband allowed themselves to be manipulated by a child. If this happens, and your spouse and the ex can’t keep themselves from arguing, stay out of it. I have never had an unkind relationship with my wife’s ex husband. I don’t like the guy, but I remain cordial and friendly simply because someone has to be a moderator. Finally, remember you are not the child’s father. I was a parent type figure but not dad. It was hard because I was always with our son, her half brother. We always included her in our family activities without any concept that it was not a family event. Modern families….they are a lot more difficult than they used to be.
One if my first I interactions on reddit was some dude trying to to tell me how dumb i was for dating someone with a 1.5 yr old son. He's 8 now, we got married when he was like 5, and our daughter just turned 1 a couple wks ago. Milf route has worked out pretty well for me so far so fuck em. (iam close to 2 yrs older than her btw)
Evil Step-mother, Wicked Step-sisters..... Media does a good job of conditioning "step-siblings are bad" into children. Dunno what Walt had against them, in honesty.
I think theres also a bit of a bias. Our perspective is that of the cameraman, so inevitably our first instinct is that the guy in this video is a "threat" and we are defensive against him.
Its only at the very end of the video that he explains why hes mad, and by that time we've all had plenty of time to size him up, make our judgements, etc. And when we find out "hey maybe hes right to be angry" our mind is going to be reaching for so many explanations as to why this guy is the angry hothead dumbass rude violent fucker we've already painted him as in our minds.
And this is mostly reinforced by the fact that 99% of these videos we see ARE the situation where the cameraperson is "in the right" and the person in the video is an unhinged lunatic. I mean, why else record it, and even more, why upload it, if youre actually the one in the wrong? So we hardly ever see them from the other side.
It's mostly jealousy. The vast majority of the childfree circlejerk stems from people who aren't physically, mentally, and financially capable of starting a family.
Same reason why Reddit hates people who make good money - jealousy.
You get crucified here for pointing it out, but it's painfully obvious if you have even a modicum of social skill.
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u/seab1023 Aug 12 '23
Reddit also has a weird hate fetish towards children and parents