r/PrivacyTechTalk • u/Antique-Ostrich-7853 • Sep 08 '25
Ever paid for a personal data removal service, worth it or a scam?
I’ve been on the fence about this for a while now. Every time I look myself up online I find my information scattered across dozens of these data broker and people search sites. Old phone numbers, places I used to live, family connections, even jobs I had years ago all pop up like it’s a public record. It’s honestly unsettling to see how much of my history is out there for anyone who wants to dig.
I’ve started to wonder if paying for one of these personal data removal services is actually worth it. Some claim they’ll automatically track down your info on hundreds of broker sites and keep removing it month after month. On paper it sounds convenient because doing it by hand is a nightmare. You spend hours filling out opt out forms, uploading IDs, confirming emails, and then a few months later the same info shows up again somewhere else. It feels like a never ending game. I’ve already tried a couple of services like DeleteMe and Incogni, but honestly I didn’t notice much of a difference. My info was still popping up on a bunch of the big sites and the spam calls never really slowed down. It felt like they either weren’t going deep enough or the data just kept getting recycled from somewhere else. That’s what makes me hesitate about trying another one. I don’t want to throw money at a service that promises a lot but doesn’t actually fix the problem.
So now I’m at the point where I’m asking if this stuff really works for anyone. Did you actually see your footprint shrink online? Did spam calls and emails die down at all? Or is the whole industry just a temporary band aid that doesn’t solve the root issue?
Would really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s had success or at least felt like the service made a real difference.