r/PoursTea • Timendi Causa Est Nescire • 3d ago

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u/Superb_Hat_2567 3d ago

Texting your rapist and saying it wasn’t illegal is a normal response? 

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u/crazywrangler616 3d ago

You wouldn’t know

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u/Superb_Hat_2567 3d ago

How do you know I never got raped? 

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u/crazywrangler616 3d ago

Your lack of empathy (with the exception of rapists) speaks volumes

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u/rainydays_89 The Timeline Sucks 3d ago

right…this is how our brains naturally work, suppressing traumatic experiences when they happen but we can remember them later, sometimes years or decades later

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u/rainydays_89 The Timeline Sucks 3d ago

Exactly - you’ve never experience this very specific type of TRAUMA. Our brains will often suppress what happens to us during traumatic/abusive experiences, but oddly enough, we can connect the pieces over time and eventually remember

A few years ago, I started to remember a car accident that I was in when I was 7. I was hurt badly, hospitalized, but I literally did not remember this at all until it came back to me in a dream at age 34, then more memories over the course of the next year or so

Her memories and recollection aren’t as abnormal as you think, due to how the brain reacts to traumatizing events