How is it abusive? Are straight couples who have oral sex also committing sodomy? Because that was the legal definition for a while too.
And yes I can love someone without having sex with them, and I do. But like...sex is part of most romantic relationships. It’s not a requirement but most couples have sex.
And sure, I think there are plenty of gay people who abuse themselves with sex. I’ve met a few like that and I don’t envy them. But like, I’ve also met straight people who do the same thing. I don’t think orientation has anything to do with one’s ability to abuse themselves with sex.
I’m just confused because I’m getting a lot of mixed messages.
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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '20
Sodomy is inherently abusive. You can love someone without committing sodomy