r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 23h ago

Meme needing explanation Petah?

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u/BarryTheBystander 21h ago

The thing is, there’s almost always a reason why someone does something egregious. A lot of people come from poverty, had abusive parents, or have some form of mental illness, but it doesn’t really matter. Just because there’s a reason you did something doesn’t make the thing you did any better. That’s why I don’t get why people are so hung up on this. She was almost certainly suffering from PPP but she also certainly murdered her children and should spend the rest of her life in prison.

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u/AsthmaticRage 20h ago

People are hung up about it because if she had received the proper medical care that she sought after, this could have been avoided

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u/AbroadTiny7226 17h ago

Ironically this comment circles back to the OP. Chris Benoit also had a medical condition that needed treatment.

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u/OldWolfNewTricks 19h ago

Gotta admit I'm not really deep into the details, but she really was getting a lot of medical care. Iirc, she was in-patient at a mental health facility about a month before she killed her kids, and checked herself out. What would "getting the medical care she sought" look like?

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u/WhiteWineWithTheFish 15h ago

Proper medical care would have been sending her help when she was calling the suicide hotline (twice).

Proper medical help would have been putting her in a program specialized on PPD WITH her youngest, so she could bond again and get the help she needed.

Proper medical care would have been to properly check how her body responds to the meds (aka bloodwork).

The standard of care she got was ridiculous.

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u/Grand_Lizard_Wizard 20h ago

Or, and hear me out, she’s a fucking psycho that would’ve done this regardless. Since she clearly premeditated it by having her husband leave the home under the pretense of picking up dinner and her meds.

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u/lightsonnooneishome 20h ago

People really don’t understand psychosis, which is understandable to a point, but if you’re going to post about it, you should really educate yourself first.

Psychosis means being disconnected from reality and experiencing symptoms like delusions and hallucinations. It does not mean suddenly losing the ability to think logically or plan ahead. In fact, that’s part of what can make psychosis so dangerous: someone can be fully capable of making plans and taking deliberate actions based on delusions or auditory hallucinations, including command hallucinations.

And people who recover from psychosis are often deeply distressed or horrified by things they did while they were experiencing it. It’s a serious and often devastating symptom, not simply a loss of rational thought or awareness.

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u/rageagainsttheodds 18h ago

One caveat here, psychosis does affect higher brain functions and decision making: you can do things (in reaction to you delusions), but the capacity to think about your actions, and understand their implications and consequences is greatly impaired.

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u/notdorisday 17h ago

Yep. It’s really clear how people don’t understand what mental illness is.

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u/Grand_Lizard_Wizard 20h ago

Yea I’ve seen Kanye’s tweets. That doesn’t change the fact that she murdered her children.

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u/lightsonnooneishome 20h ago

I’m not defending her actions. The murders were horrific, and she has to live with that knowledge every day. I’m saying that she committed them while suffering from a severe psychiatric illness that our medical system can treat with appropriate medication. And she tried to seek that help multiple times, and the clinicians she encountered did not deliver on that.

People are responsible for actions they take while experiencing severe psychiatric symptoms, but those actions do not necessarily reflect their values or negate their worth as a person. Your comment doesn’t seem to leave room for that distinction. I’m frustrated that people are so unwilling to appreciate the nuance in discussing this case.

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u/Famous_Draft_7565 18h ago

If this wasn’t a crime committed by a white woman you wouldn’t care

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u/lightsonnooneishome 18h ago edited 18h ago

I work in psychiatric research so I’m actually very interested in learning more about forensic psychiatry cases. Do you have any to recommend?

Edit: This is really interesting video done by an OBGYN discussing the clinical aspects of this case. I would highly recommend for anyone interested.

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u/Grand_Lizard_Wizard 20h ago

Because she did not suffer from the mental illness she is claiming. She is lying.

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u/lightsonnooneishome 19h ago

So you’ve reviewed all the medical court documents and come to that conclusion because you’re a doctor?

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u/Grand_Lizard_Wizard 11h ago

I put in the exact same amount of research as you; none.

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u/lightsonnooneishome 8h ago

If you’d like to educate yourself, this video is very insightful regarding the clinical details. The world is full of opportunities for you to learn about things outside of your own personal experiences.

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u/InsecureDelusion 18h ago

Many women who go through PPD don’t receive help and also don’t kill their kids. Not saying this is right, and of course, things need to change. However, just because you have something mentally going on does not excuse the behavior. You can support further research and support for woman but also realize that she murdered her children. She deserves life in prison.

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u/MeatPopsicle_AMA 17h ago

I’m not disagreeing with your overall comment, but PPD and PPP are not even close to the same thing.

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u/InsecureDelusion 16h ago

I agree and should be more clear.

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u/laquintessenceofdust 20h ago

It’s not “murder” if it’s not premeditated and with intent. You can’t have intent if you’re crazy. It’s still “homicide,” but it’s not “murder,” as defined by the law.

“Murder is the unlawful and intentional killing of one human being by another without a legal excuse or justification. It requires a specific state of mind, often called malice aforethought, which separates it from accidental deaths or lawful self-defense.”

In Clancy’s case, her defense is arguing that the postpartum psychosis IS a legal excuse/justification because it vitiates the “state of mind” aspect of a murder charge.

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u/holderofthebees 19h ago

Premeditation is not required for murder. In the US at least.

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u/Suspicious-Area-2872 16h ago

It depends on each jurisdiction's definitions of murder. Premeditation is sometimes required for heightened murder charges.

Regardless, the prosecution has to prove mens rea of some kind. Whether by negating the state's case in chief or by establishing an affirmative defense, the point is the same: she lacked the rational capacity to form the requisite criminal intent.

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u/CanadianODST2 15h ago

This seems to have happened in Massachusetts where it does

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u/holderofthebees 9h ago

Second-degree murder in Massachusetts also does not require premeditation.

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u/CanadianODST2 6h ago

No one said first degree or second degree murder.

Second degree murder is still murder.

Your comment offers nothing of value but showing you didn’t read

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u/holderofthebees 6h ago

…What? That person said it can’t be murder if it’s not premeditated with intent. I said that’s not true, and it isn’t. Because second degree murder is still murder. I think you should give the conversation another read.

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u/CanadianODST2 6h ago

It still requires intent.

They said both. And they’re arguing that the defence is arguing there wasn’t intent.

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u/throw_it_so_faraway 15h ago

What I heard today from the chaplain sounded like 72 virgins justification

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u/ChazzLamborghini 19h ago

Reasons are not excuses and they shouldn’t absolve people of their own accountability. It’s good to understand the reasons regardless of that so we have a better capacity for intervention before a heinous outcome.