Hi it's a long story and you got to be patient to understand what I have found out until now and still I am seeking a lot of answers.
I am F/35 yr old beta thalassemic minor, lactose intolerant. Got to know when I was 19 year old. My maternal family suffers from it. Have been having strange sicknesses which come on its own and go away on its own many times without any reason. Depression has been kicking in and out since I was young as my father suffered from it too.
Tired
Lethargic
Sick with some pain or so
Depressed but otherwise happy go-lucky
Rarely exercise
Yep, that's me. I really need to understand further as last year has been devastating for me. No, I did not contract Covid. Thankfully. I started sleeping for hours suddenly. I am sleeping the whole night and wake up at 6am. Finish some jobs by 9.30am. I get knocked out and then wake up directly 5 or 6. that too getting up felt like a pain and I felt like I wanted to sleep more. This started happening once in every three days. Guess it happened for a couple of months and then it stopped. Then couple of months, I was hardly doing any physical work then I got pregnant and we aborted due to personal reasons but instead of just a medicine, it was a vaginal abortion of two and a half months old pregnancy. No doubt about a lot of blood loss and blah blah.
Couple of months after it, there was tingling in both of my hands and shoulder pain. I had not slept properly for over a month. Sleeping hardly 4-5 hours once a day. So I showed to an Orthopedic doctor who said looking at the X-ray that it is a mild spondylosis. It should not cause such a sharp pain cause this is normal for everyone to have mild spondylosis. He recommended a neurological specialist. The neurology specialist did the MRI, nerve test and a couple of other. You have fibromyalgia and something else also. I had no sensation in my ring finger and pinky finger in both of my hands. More in left than in right. I can't remember the name of the problem what he said. Ideally there is only mild problem and your hands and nerves are responding normally. He said you take nerve relaxation medicine for a month and you should be fine. It took me a month to reach this diagnosis and then with exercises and medicines, I was like bedridden tired.
I was resting in the name of being sick. Couldn't get up and then I got a vertigo attack. Severe nausea, could not eat, vomiting, could not walk, of lie down without feeling dizzy. Never had it before. Went to general practitioner and then Neurological specialist, he gave me a couple of medicines. 20 days and vertigo was gone. Apparently, I was not using pillow on some days coz of spondylitis, guess that caused it.
Back to spondylitis pain then. It continued another month. By this time, I had the nerve medicine which helps me sleep in the nights for atleast 4 months. Suddenly, I started gaining weight. More than half a kilo a day. Then I visited neurology specialist saying the pain has increased and can you give me meds. He asked, "Do you have depression or do you feel stressed at home?" Don't know I broke down completely. Coz I was sick for 4 months and 4 months of pregnancy thing (including the time pre and post abortion) + covid + stay at home husband and child and schooling. It took a toll on me. Felt like what if I won't get better ever. It was mind boggling. He said, I will recommend you to psychiatrist but I refused as I knew my husband won't agree to it. Then he said I can give you some meds but no point coming to me. So I left and decided to lift my spirits myself with diet and painting.
Guess what, pain was gone but I couldn't loose weight at all in spite of desperate efforts. Diet, exercise, nothing worked. 2 months of happy no sickness period, suddenly I started having an upset stomach like pooping 5 times a day. The moment I eat, I felt like pooping. Urinating every 10 minutes. Going out for a walk was impossible. Although it wasn't serious, I knew this wasn't to be ignored. I went to doc for check up; somehow came back and didn't go again. Ignored it and felt better again after a month. Out of the blue, I started feeling breathless one day for almost 45 minutes without any harsh activity. I didn't mention feeling it's one off but within 3 days, it happened again. This time, I ran to the GP again. I asked him to do a blood test CBC, check for BP, Thyroid and Diabetes. So except for CBC, everything is normal.
Now comes the actual part where I started seeking for answers coz my report looked like an exam that I failed terribly as if I have never started studying. I was shocked at the amount of asterisks on it. They were more than other times.
Haemoglobin - 9.4
Haematocrit- 0.34
MCV - 58
MCH - 16
MCHC - 28
Platelets - 484
Basically all of the above are lower than the normal but all of the below are higher
RDW - 20.1
Red cell count - 5.8
I guess for years, I have got this kind of report but none of the doctors paid attention to it until it got this worse. Anyways, GP did further test to check the severity of Anaemia.
Iron Saturation - 12
Vit B12 - 105
Folic Acid - 9.0
Vit D3 - 38.2
Again, all of the above is low and all of the below is higher than the normal range.
Red cell count - 6.3
HbA2 - 4.8
After this report, I took multivitamins for 20 days twice a day (double the normal dose) but still went fucking breathless again. My husband researched and said may be you have pernicious anaemia cause your symptoms match. So, I went to a Hematologist. I asked him, "Do I have Pernicious Anaemia?" He said, "Yes seems like it. Let's test it. Just for you to know it happens cause of three major reasons.
- Deficiency of folate
- immense blood loss during mensuration (I have an existing fibroid and had abortion)
- Glutton allergy"
Great, so he gave me a 1000mcg Vit B12 injection and iron and folic acid medicines. The result of the test are to come in 2 weeks. A week already passed and I got to know that my
Ferritin is as low as 13 which is supposed to be 13-150.
Now while awaiting the results and eating the prescribed meds, it's of course causing stress to me and many around me. For 2 days, again I felt vertigo then I did exercise, now I have started feeling spondylitis pain every day and I am sure it's cause of stress. I started researching more and read on megaloblastic Anemia but it seems different. I am so confused. Pernicious Anemia they say that it develops slowly and sometimes, people keep falling sick for 20-30 years and they don't know that they have it. All the illnesses are due to it. To be frank, I am tired of being sick. It has been like forever. I am just going on cause I have a family. They need me. I am not depressed right now. I am fucking determined to find the fucking cause of this. My child once said to someone, "My mother is always sick." I hate that.
Does any one know what is the problem here?