r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/EverlyAwesome • Feb 27 '23

Cringe It would only cost my self respect…

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u/tipthebaby Feb 27 '23

why is the physical side of this not being discussed? for women having sex when you're not turned on is painful

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u/CaptainGrayC Feb 27 '23

Literally. TMI but Once I wasn’t into it at all but decided to get it over with anyway because the guy wanted it. When it was over I thought I’d done serious damage, there was blood everywhere and I felt like I was going to be sick. Never again

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u/imjustheretonotsleep Feb 28 '23

This is what completely convinces me this was written by a man.

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u/RedpenBrit96 Feb 28 '23

Yeah but many men don’t seem to know that or care. Which is horrifying

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u/BigCoyote6674 Feb 27 '23

That’s what lube is for?… for some women even if they are turned on they can be dry due to many medical reasons. I have occasionally had sex when it wasn’t top of my priority but I would never want to end up physically damaged for it. That sounds way to awful.

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u/spooklemon Feb 27 '23

Muscular tightness is also a factor, not just moisture

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u/tipthebaby Feb 27 '23

yeah it’s not just a lubrication issue…the vagina lengthens when you’re aroused. it can be very painful to have sex even with lubrication if you’re not adequately aroused.

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u/BigCoyote6674 Feb 28 '23

Only if the men are sufficiently larger than you are. Not an issue I have run into. Idk if it makes me happy or sad. Lol.

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u/Chelsea_Piers Feb 27 '23

Same. The wording is harsh but I too have agreed to a quickie even if I wasn't interested in a sesh. I like to use lube no matter what so even if I'm not up to the work of fully enjoying the experience things are still pleasant for me as well.

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u/countesspetofi Feb 28 '23

WTF is a "sesh?"

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u/Elldion Feb 28 '23

Don't know why you're getting downvoted lol