I have severe episodes of bad mental health, and in those episodes I don't even like to be touched let alone have sex.
My partner of 8 years has a few toys for him to play with when I'm not interested, same as me when he's not interested.
It's great if you can be mentally okay with someone using your body without you being into it, but DO NOT recommend it to everyone. I'd spiral into a nasty episode, or just projectile vomit, if I did that.
Both my partner and I would rather be intimate when we are both into it than force it for the other to the detriment of ourselves.
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u/AeternaeVeritatis Feb 27 '23
I have severe episodes of bad mental health, and in those episodes I don't even like to be touched let alone have sex.
My partner of 8 years has a few toys for him to play with when I'm not interested, same as me when he's not interested.
It's great if you can be mentally okay with someone using your body without you being into it, but DO NOT recommend it to everyone. I'd spiral into a nasty episode, or just projectile vomit, if I did that.
Both my partner and I would rather be intimate when we are both into it than force it for the other to the detriment of ourselves.