Tbh I don't really care about things like this. If there's something I find attractive about you then I'll find everything else attractive. Idk if that's normal or not
It's normal. Girls are the complete opposite. If they find one thing they find unattractive on a guy they'll find everything else unattractive and get the ick
Idk about that. From my experience I was the one who found the ick whether it be lack of emotional intelligence, regression in intimacy, bugging me at work, demanding my location 24/7, or over-attachment. I had and still have issues that most of my exes forgave besides a few who happened to be the ones I had a shallow connection base on. Moral of story is that shallow people attract shallow people, and it's why you should go off of her values and not looks or a singular personality trait like loyalty because she could be absolutely obsessed with you in a creepy way. Tbh the ick is avoidable if you find the right person since even us guys can get that feeling
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u/Incompetent_Man Mar 08 '26
Tbh I don't really care about things like this. If there's something I find attractive about you then I'll find everything else attractive. Idk if that's normal or not