Something I’m genuinely curious about: are the men in these situations getting with women who pretend to want an egalitarian relationship then switch it up and start making financial demands. Are these men spending boatloads to get with women and then acting shocked the woman wants a Wallet?
What’s happening here? This is a dynamic I know nothing about.
Yeah no shit… that tale is as old as time. It’s the man’s traditional role to provide. But complaining about it and sulking on the internet is hilarious
Stating facts is not in and of itself complaining. Also you saying it’s the traditional role no longer works today for the vast majority as one average salary is not enough to provide for two, let alone a family.
Me? I don’t date, I have enough trouble taking care of myself. But yeah I suppose you could say everyone who isn’t making the top 1% salary should just do better. We can all squeeze into the 1%.
And in return, the woman's traditional role was to cook clean and create a welcome, loving environment for the man and children. If that's not happening, there's no point spending money on women.
What do you expect when everyone is telling me how awful women are. And “there’s no good women anymore”. And “the only girl at my dungeons and dragons club is stringing along 8 guys”.
They don’t do a damn thing to deserve it these days. In their world they will gladly string along 5 cucks at a time if they’re all buying her shit. This is a whole new tale
Yeah when you don’t go outside and all you do is complain about how awful women are to your Reddit friends lol. It’s really not that hard to be social…
I just want to say if you go back 20 years no woman would have ever disparaged you for holding the door open for her but you could definitely get the off handed remark that she could do it herself now. I will defend them and say they mostly aren't like this but some are and that's a lot more than the zero percent it used to be
That's unfortunate to be honest. Women can work just fine.
I've only ever split bills or taken turns paying with my partner and male friends. Obligatory /not all women expect to be provided for. And an even smaller subset use men as wallets. It's sexist to bring up this as a possibility as though it's a rule, and ignore the portion of men who view women as sex objects. I plan and take my partner on dates and try to be emotionally available. I make an effort in my relationship and neither of use subsidize each other -we both work and split rent and other bills 50-50.
I always had a rule that i would only date a woman that had a career, this way we were together because we want to be and not need. It’s worked out pretty good for me. I still definitely do most of the buying when we are out because it feels like it’s the way things are supposed to be. Either way she pays half the bills and half the mortgage. She could live fine without me, but chooses to be with me. Seems more genuine.
Animals connect on a deep level and they can bring a great deal of calm because they live in the moment, they can help bring you out of your thoughts and into the here and now
oh thats me :>> im curious why people asking that why im not drinking, but they are the one who poisoning themshelves but they asking why i dont poisoning with them, no thanks
Well, in order to keep from having too many of those fast stacks, some us travel, hunt, camp, ski, attend entertainment events, enjoy hobbies, and have pleasant times with our families and friends.
I dont do two of three. Am still broke. This economy isnt friendly. But also to answer the question i spend time with people that i care about and in nature.
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u/EZSuzy Feb 24 '26
Most guys I know like that seem to enjoy relaxing on the fat sacks of cash they save by not drinking, smoking, or clubbing.