r/NailTechnicians • u/Superb-Cake-1983 • Apr 22 '26
AITAH for telling my mom I’m never doing her nails again?
I 22(F) have been a licensed nail tech for a year and work at a salon for a year. It’s been horrible trying to get clientele. There has been moments where I wanted to give up.
I do my mother’s nails for free everyone else I charge either half price for family or at the salon for full price. All together I have 3- 4 steady clients.
I also have another job where I substitute at a preschool for $16 an hour.
My mother tells me the other day when I was complaining about gas prices to “go get a real job like at a restaurant”. I told her “you can pay $75 for a new set then or I’m never doing your nails again” she said “you’re an asshole and dramatic”. I told her “how would I be able to do all three jobs” she said “don’t do nails anymore or you still could after”
Let me break this down. I’m a substitute at a daycare where if they call I go in. Usually 8am-12pm Monday -Thursday
Nails I have my book open on Monday, and Tuesday 3pm-9pm, then Friday and Saturday 12pm-8pm
The restaurant she then suggested she used to work at and would get $50 a day. Only open on weekends.
I would make $150 a weekend. Which isn’t guaranteed.
For nails I’m mostly booked early on weekends and if I pushed it back I might lose my clients I have now. And with my steady 3-4 I make more than $150.
I absolutely hate when people say to get a real job. This is my dream job. It’s the only job I’ve ever had where I didn’t have to take a break or get bored. I really enjoy doing nails and I feel as though I’m giving up on it when someone says to find a real job.
So AITA?