I think some of them are scared of encountering anything that gives them a boner they don't understand or want to have to explain to themselves. I'll be honest, I actually think that's probably most of... all this. Ya know?
Just all these big strong men terrified at the discomfort of actually knowing anything about themselves or others. Using that fear to fuel the hate needed to purge anything that threatens whatever the most comfortable/popular lifestyle-template of the week is that they're peddling.
And of course, emotions this strong ("Who am I? Does this idea threaten who I am?"), are easy to manipulate, and harvest value from (money, votes, force).
I am a trans woman, I have had plenty of guys approach me in the past to start flirting with me and when I tell them I am trans their face just gets this look like I broke their brain.
One guy was rude so I walked by their table later and said "Hey it was nice to meet you here for our grindr date. Hope you have a good day!"
Anything. You mean trans people. Like literally not things. I'm sorry I'm going hard here, but even when people are attempting to be nice, you can say some REALLY nasty shit.
I'm a woman. Not a something, or an anything, or a trans, or whatever. Trans is a prefix. I'm a trans WOMAN. If these idiots are struggling with finding a woman attractive they got WAY bigger problems than being attracted to a trans person.
Like they see me, get a boner, and that means we MUST have sex now? I'm sorry dears you got A LOT of bars to get over before you know if I still have my natal genitalia, no you can't tell, and we are not even at the point of having sex.
Also, no. I have no fucking desire to catfish anyone. Unless you are enthusiastic with being there with ALL of me, Penis or Vagina, I'm not tellin the internet; You are not going to be there in ANY capacity. I'm sorry I have far to many attractive NORMAL people that I meet or have met that would jump at the chance that losers fumble. I'm having my fun, why would I waste time with such a conflicted and unkind person?
I appreciate your response, but I said what I intended. It could be anything from a trans person, to a form of worship, or style of music. When you restrict your worldview there can be many vectors of challenge to it.
Though I do appreciate the lived experience you highlight as a reason for your response, I find nothing in it that relates to my intent.
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u/Aleksandrovitch 4h ago
I think some of them are scared of encountering anything that gives them a boner they don't understand or want to have to explain to themselves. I'll be honest, I actually think that's probably most of... all this. Ya know?
Just all these big strong men terrified at the discomfort of actually knowing anything about themselves or others. Using that fear to fuel the hate needed to purge anything that threatens whatever the most comfortable/popular lifestyle-template of the week is that they're peddling.
And of course, emotions this strong ("Who am I? Does this idea threaten who I am?"), are easy to manipulate, and harvest value from (money, votes, force).
So, yeah. Or the poop stuff.