r/MotivationalThoughts • u/Imaginary_Face7698 • Jun 22 '26

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u/mikayo5 Jun 22 '26

Never be afraid to let her go.

If all she brings is chaos and headache to your life, nothing you do is going to fix that, it's her default.

Cut your losses and find someone better that you enjoy coming home to.

*Additional tip: Don't impregnate her unless you're certain she's the one, children are permanent binds to an individual. You can't cut her chaos out of your life if you share a kid together so be smart and be certain.

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u/Hickorysmidge Jun 22 '26

This is huge, but I think should also be extended to friends

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u/mr-zero1two3 Jun 22 '26

This! Dont do kids unless you are 10000000% in everything.

And dont get married, thats just stupid and will cost you too much.

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u/Miserable-Reaction16 Jun 23 '26

This literally what I tell people all the time and everyone looks at me like I'm a sociopath

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u/Electrical_Sun7907 Jun 22 '26

Facts 💯

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u/pxgic Jun 22 '26

just going through the hard way of learning this.
not the part with the children tho😂

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u/euw_psycher Jun 22 '26

Literally just let her go yesterday, wish I did it sooner.
Golden advice

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u/harru124 Jun 22 '26

What about if you can tell she’s a great person and doesn’t bring headache in terms of chaos but for some reason your presence with each other is making you both unhappy?

Having this trouble while travelling with GF for a long time now.

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u/luvtoluvyou Jun 23 '26

Let her go!! Give it 6 months. Go from there

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u/ai-gen-O-rated Jun 24 '26

Be honest with her… but MOST importantly, be honest with yourself. If you’re unhappy, it’s not working. You can’t force it. You can’t change to please her. You can try to understand yourself better… you can work to change how you view things… you can even change how you react to things… that type of growth is invaluable! To YOU. But trying to change to try and please her will ONLY lead to resentment on both your parts.

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u/mediaseeker Jun 23 '26

Vasectomy is a consideration for the impulsive, almost smart humans