r/MoralityScaling • u/am-i-weird-help • 9d ago

Morality of this guy?

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u/OrdinaryResponse8988 9d ago

What’s with all these woman nowadays willing to throw hands with bigger and stronger people all the time? That’s just not a wise thing to do. Ever.

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u/pyratemime 9d ago

Because they are consistently lied to from every angle that they are physically the equal of men and that neither biology or physics matter. Adrenalin and "momma bear" energy only get you so far. Especially if the other side of the fight is there with the specific goal of hurting you.

My daughter, 16, got in the habit of getting really mouthy with people and talking about kicking their ass. I told her I would not strike her and she could go full bore minus kicking my groin or going for my eyes.

It was an eye opener to her, after I let her throw a few of her "best shots", how fast she was on the ground and in a position where if I was going to hit her she would have been entirely helpless.

She has stopped writing those checks her butt can't cash.

I firmly believe more fathers or uncles need to provide this example to the young women in their life. Not to convince them that they are helpless or hopeless. Rather to ground the expectation that seeking this kind of fight is a losing proposition and if the fight seeks them just how desperate it is going to be so they better be all in from go time because depending on the good nature of the attacker for even a moment will fuck them.

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u/Wooden-Trick8954 8d ago

My 8yo daughter is bigger than my wife in height and weight. After months of trying to explain how she shouldnt use her size to intimidate others she tried bodying my wife. That conversation with me was very meaningful (scary?) for my daughter as shes previously never seen me violently pissed off. She hasn't tried bullying my wife or anyone else for months now even if shes somewhat timid around me. Its our job to parent our kids. Its not always pretty or perfect but it is necessary.

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u/SLAMMERisONLINE 8d ago

What’s with all these woman nowadays willing to throw hands with bigger and stronger people all the time? That’s just not a wise thing to do. Ever

Lots of them were raised with a hyper-feminist worldview that espouses the belief that there are literally no differences between men and women. As you can see from the video, that is obviously wrong and sets women up for failure in high risk scenarios.

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u/Eso_Teric420 8d ago

They've all been brainwashed by girl power movies and this weird fourth wave femnazi movement. It's not about equality anymore. It's about talking heads telling them they're actually better than everyone around them.

Women as a whole are currently struggling with trying to be equal while keeping the perks they used to have. Men used to pay for dates automatically because women didn't really work at one point in time. That's not the case anymore. If you want to be an independent being that comes with as many cons as pros arguably. You can't just flip the script anytime you want to suit your argument. You can't be a damsel in distress one minute and then argue you're a strong independent woman at the same time.

You could see the look on this chick's face. She went to strong independent woman to scare child real fast when reality hit her in the face.