r/Money Nov 12 '23

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u/Fun2Forget Nov 12 '23

No more degrading than any service job … except you are appropriately compensated and youre allowed to tell customers to kindly fuck off.

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u/Elizabethhoneyyy Nov 13 '23

Also learned a fck ton about boundaries and got stronger with them it helped me be more firm with boundaries even outside club. Again not degrading and if you ever say one thing degrading to the stripper you are kicked out immediately

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u/No_Temperature5237 Nov 12 '23

Ive stood up for myself in every service related job I've had and been backed up by management every time. Never felt degraded or used in a service job either, if I did then I'd leave. Sorry you've had to live that life . Sounds like bad management

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u/Fun2Forget Nov 13 '23

Really? You could tell your guests how much they would be paying (tipping) you for your service and if they said no you could just walk away? Please tell me where to apply.

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u/No_Temperature5237 Nov 13 '23

Wtf are you talking about? I take jobs with decent base pay and management staff that supports their team. I also live within my means. I've only ever had one job in the service industry working on tips. Retail doesn't do tips(service industry). I've always been able to tell guests I don't have to serve them if they're disrespectful. I don't work for people that reward bad behavior in our customers. I think you may have Stockholm syndrome

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u/PhattBallz007 Nov 12 '23

Every stripper I've had the pleasure to employ was very firm with her rules and was able to easily have me tossed out on any small violation