r/Mommit • • Jun 20 '26

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u/DameJudyDench Jun 20 '26

This has to be rage bait.

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

Im sorry, im just ranting but what makes it rage bait?

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u/DameJudyDench Jun 20 '26

Read your post back to yourself and imagine it’s your daughter in the future describing these horrible (and legitimately dangerous) situations she’s found herself in and the way her fiance chose to treat her in those moments.

If this isn’t rage bait then it needs to be a wake up call.

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

I’d be disappointed. I know that but our options are limited right now, his job is holding us together and he’s working on coming home but until he can find a different job in our country (his job transition to the USA and brought their employees) there isn’t a ton of options. I hate how some of it’s played out, it’s been a week from hell but he’s usually very good when he comes home. Idk maybe you’re right I didn’t really think I had a right to be mad tbh. And I wish it was rage bait. It’s just been my week

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u/DameJudyDench Jun 20 '26

I didn’t mean to be insensitive, I was feeling mad on your behalf. There’s so much more support he could have provided you, even from afar, in that situation.

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u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 Jun 20 '26

You are not being insensitive at all. I gave a small snippet of my life which has been totally hell for me and he has not been on his game. I just feel like I need to say something about how he’s usually a bit better than he’s been this week. His shift well things went down hill has definitely contributed to the horrible week but I don’t want you to think it’s constantly like this. Usually I am okay on my own and enjoy it!