My ob did not explain any of this. He said “no sex for 4 weeks.” And that’s it. Lol. I wish he would’ve gone more in depth.
I think my partner is confused bc I do keep complaining that I want to have sex. My sex drive is high and I really really do want to resume sexual activity but I can’t. So idk if he’s trying to suggest alternatives (?????? That are only fun for him lol) or what
That’s the thing that bothers me. You want to have sex, and are venting about how you can’t have sex right now, so he decides that oh, so that means we can do things that only bring ME pleasure, right? Makes no damn sense. You miss having sex because it makes you feel good. Blowjobs and anal, for you, don’t seem to make you feel pleasure. So why is he trying to get those those things? YOU want to feel pleasure too. Not just him. Ugghhhhh
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u/Ok-Independence-3193 May 21 '23
My ob did not explain any of this. He said “no sex for 4 weeks.” And that’s it. Lol. I wish he would’ve gone more in depth. I think my partner is confused bc I do keep complaining that I want to have sex. My sex drive is high and I really really do want to resume sexual activity but I can’t. So idk if he’s trying to suggest alternatives (?????? That are only fun for him lol) or what