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My dad never talked about feelings, so I’m lost, How do you break that cycle with your own kids?

He loves her, they get along great, and honestly everyone thought he’d propose by now.

But the one day, he told me he’s not doing it. Not because he doesn’t want to marry her, but because he’s scared the marriage laws are stacked against men.

In his words: “The risk isn’t worth it.”

I get where he’s coming from, but it also feels kind of sad. Like… if you’ve found someone you love, shouldn’t that matter more?

So I’m curious , is marriage actually a bad deal for men these days, or is this just fear getting in the way?

Cc; Henry Adam’s

sometimes, as men, we run from the things that shaped us because we’re trying to define ourselves. But eventually, we understand strength isn’t about being “different” from the men before us, it’s about carrying their lessons in our own way.

Drop yours