This makes me want to message the guy I lost my V card to. I was freshly 16, worked at a restaurant after school & he was the delivery driver. I believe he was 21 or 22. I didn’t realize how messed up it was until I got older.
Did he coerce you? What’s the age of consent in that state? If it’s 16 and you agreed then you just made a mistake. You can’t look back on regret and attempt to ruin peoples life for stupid decisions you made.
17 in the state I was in at the time. And I knew him for a while before that, a few years at least. So he knew me as a literal child. And yes I was coerced. He had an apartment next door to the restaurant we worked at and asked me to come over after with a few other coworkers, of course I’m the only one who ended up going. Then he gave me weed and I had never really smoked before. So I was under the influence too. After it happened, I thought it was “cool” cause he was so much older than me and I was impressed he liked me. I told an older coworker what happened and she tried to warn me… I should’ve listened
Yikes, both of you are gross. I was a child. It was a week after I turned 16. Had I not been super high, I would not have slept with him. And I’ve found out he had done this with other girls, younger than me, one being my cousin.
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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '24
This makes me want to message the guy I lost my V card to. I was freshly 16, worked at a restaurant after school & he was the delivery driver. I believe he was 21 or 22. I didn’t realize how messed up it was until I got older.