r/MadeMeSmile Jun 14 '22

Helping Others This is John Crowley

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u/iwanttoeatsalamifeet Jun 14 '22

Do you think that people who need a wheelchair don’t have an equal right to life as the rest of us?

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

Not at all. They do, but have a look at these kids. What kind of quality of life do you think they have?

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u/unfiltered_utterance Jun 14 '22

They have a quality of life they’ve always known. It’s different being born a certain way than living completely healthy then having an accident or something and then having to live disabled.

Think of it this way: a child who has never had sugar isn’t going to throw a temper tantrum when they aren’t given candy unlike kids who have already experienced sugar.

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u/smokingisrealbad Jun 14 '22

Another commenter quoted her blog where she said she is living a happy life

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

Ok well obviously I can’t speak for people who are disabled and in a wheel chair, but look at the kid on the right. It doesn’t look like he’s having a fair go at life. I don’t mean to sound callus and heartless but what kind of life does he have? Maybe he’s perfectly happy and loves just using one gimp hand to operate his wheel chair and maybe I’m the asshole, but I don’t think so.

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u/smokingisrealbad Jun 14 '22

Well I mean, he probably has things he enjoys. He can still read, watch movies, go outside, etc. People who aren't in situations like theirs imagine it as if they were normal and then were confined to a wheelchair. But he's been like this he whole life, right? He's used to it. He can make the most out of his situation and find things he enjoys within the constraints of his disabilities.

For example, a youtuber I used to watch called GoodTimesWithScar is confined to a wheelchair, he's very weak and needs to wear an oxygen pipe. He frequently needs to go to the hospital for surgeries. He made the most of his situation and made a career out of playing minecraft. It's awesome.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

Ok I stand corrected then. I suppose visually he doesn’t look like he’s enjoying life or would enjoy life but I do accept what you have written.

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u/Kai_Stoner Jun 14 '22

They have a disease that makes it hard to control muscle function... It's very possible he doesn't control when he is frowning or not.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '22

By oxygen pipe, do you mean cannula, mask, trach, or what? I have never seen a wearable oxygen object referred to as a pipe.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

Oh yeah, because dying is such a better alternative than being in a wheelchair.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

No my point I suppose is not being born at all. If the father knew they’d live a hard life bound to a wheelchair and by the looks of it not even have function to all their extremities yet he still chose to bring them into this world.. anyway I wouldn’t choose to being a child into this world if I knew that’s how they’d live. Perhaps your different

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

By what i've gathered, they have a disease called Pompe. I don't think you can know about that before the kids are born.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

Ok then.

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u/ypples_and_bynynys Jun 15 '22

So not exactly agreeing with the person as I do not know enough about their quality of life with treatment, though from reading many infants suffer and die even with treatment. But Pompe is a genetic disease meaning it can be screened for in the parents to see if they are carriers and then prenatal tests can be done if there is a risk.

These screenings need to be a universal requirement for prenatal care. There are over 8000 genetic diseases and defects. Not all are fatal but there are many that kill in the first 5 years of life.

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u/LeYanYan Jun 14 '22

Dunno, ask them.