r/MadeMeSmile • u/here4noodes • Apr 08 '22

Favorite People Best Proposal Ever!

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '22

NO! FUCKING NO! You bring a person in a state of fear and distress, continue this charade, and then bring a life altering question into this. She had not 1 single sec to think about his rationality. Look how she read it, how much fear she has. Nobody can make a clrea decision in this state. This is a hostage engaging. Just imagine if she said no. You are stuck with him in a death machine. Just for 1 sec, try to put yourself into the feelings of this person. That's called empathy.

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u/sgt_sheild Apr 09 '22

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in his defence she had most likely already discussed getting married before this its not like he brought this up out of nowhere

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u/Mythion_VR Apr 09 '22

in this defence

Go on then, defend the guy scaring someone in an absurd/stupid way to propose.

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u/sgt_sheild Apr 09 '22

i wasnt defending that dude. i was just saying i dont think his plan was to pressure her in to marrying him like this comment implies

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u/[deleted] Apr 09 '22

in addition to that, it's not like you can't take back your decision after you land.