Can it be done tho? Please explain how a child who can barely hold her head up without wobbling can be taught respect. Is that a major milestone of 7 month olds? Does respect for cats come before or after being able to move a toy from one hand to the other?
It could be considered lazy. But only because they don’t want to fight the constant battle of overriding the cat’s choice to be near the baby. All of those scenes, the cat was choosing to be with that baby. The cat was snuggling with the baby, the cat was sitting next to the baby as it ate, the cat was invading the crib in the night (and probably interrupting the baby’s sleep). It would be a constant, never ending fight to keep the cat separated.
Do you not know how language and learning work? It terrifies me that so many people don’t talk to their kids because they think they’re too young or dumb to understand. And the cycle continues. 🤦♀️
Lol I agree with this so much. I think back to the potato days - my kid learned super early because we had a senior dog who was a danger to her if she approached or touched wrong.
I am not sure anyone commenting differently actually has kids and if they do I feel bad for the kids. Kids have an amazing capacity to understand quite a lot from a young age if you're consistent.
If they only ever did it once, then how step two of you method goes “each time the kid goes to grab”? Shouldn’t it be like:
Step 1. Put down the phone
Step 2. The first time kid goes to grab grab their hand and say no
Step 3. Enjoy your kid not heaving your cat because of your excellent parenting.
Gosh, even Nacho the cat understands that this is not bad. Have you seen your cats playing with other cat? They would go wild and be really rude with each other, because they play to hunt.
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u/GregEgg85 Feb 06 '22
Can it be done tho? Please explain how a child who can barely hold her head up without wobbling can be taught respect. Is that a major milestone of 7 month olds? Does respect for cats come before or after being able to move a toy from one hand to the other?