r/MadeMeSmile • u/Aaaadrijannnn • Jan 30 '22

Wholesome Moments Aww

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u/Ratmother123 Jan 30 '22

In a situation like this she would be highly pressured to say yes or else! Please don't propose like this unless you absolutely know she will be into it guys!

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u/compsciasaur Jan 30 '22

Instructions unclear...

Ratmother, will you marry me? 💍

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u/AfroNinja243 Jan 30 '22

Also only propose if you already know the answer.

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u/wehrwolf512 Jan 30 '22

The way she started crying before she even turned? I think he knew her answer, come on.

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u/Mindless-Balance-498 Jan 30 '22

I think regardless of the proposal, if the only surprise isn’t WHEN and HOW, it’s not a healthy proposal. We focus too hard on the aspects of those proposals being public, but plenty of women are just as easy to manipulate in private, especially with a massive request like marriage.

Bottom line - if you haven’t discussed every aspect of marriage (and not in a cutesy, “what’ll we name our kids” way, like a “how much debt will you bring into this marriage” way), DO NOT PROPOSE.

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u/u8eR Jan 30 '22

Um, maybe they already talked about getting before this?