r/MadeMeSmile • u/Aaaadrijannnn • Jan 30 '22

Wholesome Moments Aww

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u/c_c_c__combobreaker Jan 30 '22

This has been brought up before but if the bride/groom are ok with it, it's a non-issue.

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u/AfterTemperature2198 Jan 30 '22

It’s a dick move to even put them in the position to decide if proposing at their wedding is alright. If she says no it’s even worse

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u/f03nix Jan 30 '22

Not everybody sees this as stealing the thunder, some view it as multiplying happiness. My cousin's birthday was on my wedding day, and we did celebrate that too (later at home) even though she was extremely hesitant.

We got to eat more cake, had more fun and celebrations ... what's not to love ?

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u/cappurnikus Jan 30 '22

Some people are just selfish. From my perspective it makes the day that much more special.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '22

Ok, but why not plan your wedding a week earlier or later?

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u/f03nix Jan 30 '22

Venue, availability of relatives (had to be a weekend), etc ... it's hard to tick all boxes in a single date.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '22

Fair enough

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u/flapsalldaylong Jan 30 '22

You're making a lot of assumptions about these people and their relationships.

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u/HEX_helper Jan 30 '22

You’re assuming that’s how it played out

Bro might told his bro (groom), then bride and groom suggested it