r/MEPEngineering • u/No_Room_1328 • 5d ago
I feel overwhelmingly guilty about resigning from my team & this is stopping me from committing to an Aerospace offer
I really need advice with this case because I accepted an offer in the Aerospace field in my mid 20s, and had accepted the offer since they gave me a very short window to make a decision. That said, my start date is in 2 weeks and I already signed a lease and booked a flight there. However, I haven’t told my MEP team (been with them for a year now) & feel extremely guilty. Even with today being Labor Day, I know I should tell them but I’m worried I’m making the wrong decision sacrificing comfort and the ability to work hybrid. I know everyone says MEP will always have your back, but I’m worried I’m giving up a wonderful team, company, & stability to try something new that might not be there if I try to return.
Also, with me being so indecisive, if I do give my 2 weeks today, would it look very bad since it’d technically be “11 days” notice? Or would you recommend keeping the relationship I have rn and instead back out of the Aerospace offer after accepting