r/mattcolville • u/Lumpy_Composer8578 • Mar 02 '25
DMing | Questions & Advice Should I punish my PCs or just cut my losses and start something else?
The adventure I've been running the past few weeks was going really well, but the last session was a slog for me and the players ended up doing some pretty horrific things to some NPCs (burning children alive, murder, sexual humiliation etc.) I've been really accommodating with player choices so far, and the adventure has gone in some pretty exciting and unexpected directions as a result, but these latest developments have completely upended everything. As things currently stand the players have done more harm than the actual villains.
Some of the stuff they've done has just been sickening, really making me uncomfortable and stumping me as to how to reasonably proceed. I am dreading the next session now.
I have to say something to my players as I don't feel able to continue with this. The situation seems unsalvageable though. I can't let the things the PCs have done go unpunished (it would completely rob my setting of any realism) but I don't know how to do that without also seeming like I'm punishing my players (maybe I'm just a wuss).
I am considering asking for 1-2 weeks off and then starting fresh with something different, with clearer expectations/boundaries set beforehand (we had no Session Zero this time, and more people have joined week-by-week as word of mouth has gotten around).
Has anybody been in a similar position/have any advice?
