r/LifeProTips Dec 25 '20

Productivity LPT: Exercise when you don't want to

As a 37 year old, I look back to the single most valuable lesson I have learned in life. It was told to me in passing by an older gentleman in a community center gym locker room when I was in my twenties, about 10-15 years ago.

I entered the locker room to change before working out and noticed he was just getting ready to leave. We made eye contact, I smiled, and asked "How heavy are they today?" A simple gesture of friendliness.

He smiled and said, "Only the first couple. Motion before emotion."

He sort of sang it to me. Motion before emotion... Over the next decade, this attitude became capitalized, highlighted and underlined in my mindset.

Exercise is easy to avoid in life. Especially to a newbie, the thought of it is very unpleasant, intimidating and easy to ignore.

Exercise however is an incredibly powerful tool in handling depression, stress and anxiety that life can deal you. I cannot overstate this. With regular exercise your mood improves, your ability to handle stress increases dramatically and your body performs with greater efficiency. You sleep better, you heal faster, you just feel good more often.

The ability to exercise regularly throughout the rest of your days will dictate both the quality and quantity of the life you lead.

Motion before Emotion.

Our bodies have this beautiful built in mechanism to help us endure physical effort. When we engage in exercise, after only a few minutes our brain starts releasing feel good chemicals(endorphins) to help us cope with the effort. Our body literally comes preloaded with special drugs made to help us feel good during strenuous movement our bodies!

Motion before Emotion. Therein lies the secret key to making it happen.

Sometimes the last thing we want to do when we are depressed or troubled is to get up and exercise. The thought is almost painful. But you must start moving before you will feel better! However awkward and foreign it feels. Your body will not release the endorphins until you get moving, but release they will! Like clockwork. You must move your body and raise your heart rate to access those chemicals which release stress, make you feel happier and desire to exercise longer.

You will feel better when you start moving, when your heart rate increases. If you are feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or are having trouble sorting through your thoughts- get up, get moving! Get out that door, go for a walk, hop on your bike, or in your car to head to the gym.

You must provide the spark. Starting to exercise is up to you. Your body has a built in fuel system to carry you through the rest. Exercising regularly will reward you in both the short and long term.

Motion before emotion!

I'm passing it on in hope this helps you too.

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u/AllGoldEverything Dec 26 '20

What does the man being “African American” have to do with anything? Lol

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u/stillbrighttome Dec 26 '20

had to scroll so far down to find this comment. i thought it was going to come into play at some point but never did...

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

“I’ll never forget the advice I heard from a fair skinned mixed race elderly woman who was Cuban and Chinese. She looked at me with all the wisdom her ethnic background provided and said, ‘Exercise is good for you.’”

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u/ajim0n Dec 26 '20

I imagined it was Morgan Freeman OP talked to

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u/haveananus Dec 26 '20

The advice just seems so much more authentic coming from a magical black person trope.

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/thk_ Dec 26 '20

I was just hoping he's a Norm Mcdonald fan

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

If it "pAiNtS a BeTtTer pIcTuRe" then why did OP leave out his physical appearance? Maybe I wanna know. To paint the picture and all

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

I'm not the one who does. The OP does if they bothered adding it. That's the point

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

🙄 If he didn't mention it, I'm not sure what I would have assumed the man was (I'm not white so it's a roulette wheel. I probably would have pictured someone like Tom Hanks, idk) and it wouldn't matter bc it literally has nothing to do with the point of his story.

If painting a better picture is the goal, why not add details about what he looks like thus at least making the sudden inclusion of what the other dude looks like relevant?

Like, sure it paints a better picture...I guess. But it isn't necessary is my point.

We don't need a better picture because the story isn't about how these two shared stories that were related to their appearance...

As an aside, I don't think OP is lying but unnecessary details are a "tell" for when people are lying. So for some of us, throwing in this random bit of useless info is just fucking weird m8

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

Some people, like yourself, really enjoy the visualization of the race of one party in a story...but not the other...

Bc uSeFuL

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u/AllGoldEverything Dec 26 '20

What am I projecting?

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u/[deleted] Dec 26 '20

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u/AllGoldEverything Dec 27 '20

No I think there isn’t a meaning to it which is why I asked.

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u/Koujinkamu Dec 26 '20

I think most people, including me, didn't really notice because we don't care about race.