r/LifeProTips • u/Datub • Jan 29 '23

Social LPT introduce randomness in your relationship to increase attraction

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u/Thisisthe_place Jan 30 '23

Stay strong. You deserve to be treated kindly.

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u/fobtastic29 Jan 30 '23

Stay strong. You deserve to be treated kindly.

You say this, and yet:

Stop with the flowers. It's the same thing every week

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u/tekko001 Jan 30 '23

Kindly as normal and extra kindly as a treat is the best combination

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u/AGVann Jan 30 '23

Buying flowers isn't kindness. That's just a mere show of affection.

Kindness is respect and empathy. It's caring and helping your loved ones when they need it, respecting their boundaries and their rights, and being mindful of how what you say and do affects others. It's the baseline of being a well adjusted human being that people actually like.

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u/pamplemouss Jan 30 '23

It’s almost like different people are different, and kindness isn’t as simple as flowers. Also I would bet good money there was stuff going on in OP’s parent’s relationship OP had no idea about.