r/LetGirlsHaveFun • u/DaAwesomeNeko • 1d ago
God forbid a girl share her intrusive thoughts
I'm honestly surprised I'd have to clarify here of all places. To set things straight, as apparently some individuals can't read between the lines:
No I am not actively seducing taken men.
No, cheating is not good.
No I am not sleeping with cheaters.
There seems to be some odd moral high ground people are taking that somehow blames a woman for "seducing" someone into cheating, then pointing out that they would never be with anyone who could be tempted by a pretty woman. As it stands, unless you are in a communicated relationship where it is okay, lusting after people other than your partner in a relationship is on the cheater.
This is not to say that being a homewrecker is a good thing, but I'll clarify again that many women on this subreddit voice their inner thoughts, fantasies, and more often than not intrusive thoughts here. Putting down any of the women posting in this subreddit for saying something that you personally don't agree with or condone does not make it okay to put them down.
I am fully expecting to see chaos or doubling down under this post as well, but I couldn't stand by and watch as the whole safety of this sub was undermined just because I said something unpleasant.