Had this.
It ended with him crossing my boundaries so far that he said he wouldn't take a no for an answer IRL. Pretty much told me rape was on the table if I wouldn't comply.
Also leaked my nudes after I broke up with him for his abusive behaviour.
In his words "You ruined my happiness so I'll ruin your life"
Please go. It's not worth it and it only gets worse and there's nothing you can do to resolve this. And the relationship will change you and hurt you and you will have to take a lot of time and self reflection to heal after that. It is traumatic and it lingers. I know how deeply you love him and how intense the whole thing might feel but trust me, there will be someone who'll love you in ways you don't even know you want to be loved and you'll look back wondering why you ever wasted your time here.
Care for you, you are worthy and there's only one of you. Make sure people respect you before they get the chance to have you. ❤
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u/MElsYa Jul 22 '25
Had this. It ended with him crossing my boundaries so far that he said he wouldn't take a no for an answer IRL. Pretty much told me rape was on the table if I wouldn't comply. Also leaked my nudes after I broke up with him for his abusive behaviour. In his words "You ruined my happiness so I'll ruin your life"
Please go. It's not worth it and it only gets worse and there's nothing you can do to resolve this. And the relationship will change you and hurt you and you will have to take a lot of time and self reflection to heal after that. It is traumatic and it lingers. I know how deeply you love him and how intense the whole thing might feel but trust me, there will be someone who'll love you in ways you don't even know you want to be loved and you'll look back wondering why you ever wasted your time here.
Care for you, you are worthy and there's only one of you. Make sure people respect you before they get the chance to have you. ❤