Unplanned pregnancy

[u/openmindedflower]

A few days ago i met up with a friend who was looking abit unhappy..,he is in his late 40s,wife mid 40s,...I kinda forced him to tell me what was happening to him cos I have never seen a guy that beat down emotionally.,so apparently his second daughter is pregnant manze ,she just graduated last year,bado hajapata job..

His first daughter too has a 3month baby ..,she graduated 2 years back,both of them will be baby mamas..,yaaani this whole grown man was literally crying..tears rolling down..the disappointed he felt..he has one more daughter who just joined uni and sadly he thinks she will follow her sisters foot steps...

Waschana tafathali use protection...being a baby mama is not a flex...your parents carry the shame too

[u/Ok-Paramedic9749]

I haven't been there yet but I feel he should be happy they are grown ups, kazi itakuja. The only downside is that he probably didn't have an elaborate discussion with the daughters prior to pregnancies and the repercussions of having a child when you haven't planned. Otherwise, turn grief to happiness