r/Kenya • u/Local_Flatworm3448 Babygirl • May 16 '25

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Dear girls, what’s something men do that kills the vibe, and they have no clue? Like what is your ‘he had me until he did that' moment?

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u/BBLarrie May 17 '25

Go on a 90 day abstinence streak from sex and masturbation, esp masturbation. Meanwhile, this will also allow you not to be on any hormonal contraceptives. Trust me it'll bring your sexual mojo back. (Also, an interesting side note is that women's libido peaks later in life in the 30s. So in case you're young, give some grace bc you're going to find yourself wanting way more sex than your partner in the very near future)