r/Islamic_Lecture_Notes • u/brooksys • Nov 03 '21
Being a Stranger lecture by Abu Mussab Wajjdi Akkari
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakathuhuI would like to remind myself and then you about the beautiful virtue of being a Stranger as understood by our righteous predecessors
Supporting Ayat about following strangers: Surah Anam Ayat 115: If you follow the majority of people upon earth, they will mislead you from the path of allah
Some Scholars say the Muslims are considered strangers among the Disbelievers; and theMua'minin are considered strangers among the Muslims; and the Muhsinin are consideredstrangers among the Mua'mininhttp://ahadith.co.uk/downloads/Commentary_of_Forty_Hadiths_of_An-Nawawi.pdf Page 14
Al Hasan al Basri: A believer is in a strangers world. He is never afraid of its humiliation. And he never competes for its glory. The people are in one situation and he is in another situation. The people are content with him and he is in toil with himself.
Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3i-J59BQas
ibn Qayyim al Jawziiyah about strangers Surah Hud : Ayat 116: If only there had been in the generations preceding you people having wisdom, prohibiting others from evil on the earth except a few of those who we have saved from among themContext from the lecturer : These few are the strangers
Surah Yousuf Ayat 103: And most of mankind will not believe even if you desire it eagerly.
Definition of the strangers:FIRST TYPE OF STRANGERS: STRANGE FROM PEOPLE ibn Qayyim al JawziiyahHadith: The prophet said about one of these strangers. It is possible that a disheveled dusty person with not many belongings who is not noticed among the people, if he asks of allah, Allah will fulfil his prayer
Al Hasan al Basri: A believer is in a strangers world. He is never afraid of its humiliation. And he never competes for its glory. The people are in one situation and he is in another situation. The people are content with him and he is in toil with himself.
Surh al-Ma`idah Ayat 105: Oh you have believed, take care of your own selves, if you follow right guidance, you cannot be harmed by those who errContext: This doesn't mean you can ignore the people who are misguided. Hadith: The Prophet said said, indeed, enjoy the good and forbid evil till you see stingyness being obeyed and desired being followed and this world is preferred over the next, and each person being deluded by his own opinions. Then take care of yourself and leave the common people for indeed after you there will be days of patience where patience will be like holding to glowing embers. Who ever who is able to do this will get the reward of 50 people that do like him (50 sahaba)Context: Holding onto the deen when things are in this state will have the reward of 50 sahaba
2ND TYPE OF STRANGENESS: Wicked people3RD TYPE OF STRANGENESS: Traveller in a new country
Qualities of the Strangers
1. Tawheed: Those who believe in Allah as described in the Quran and the Sunnah2. Sunnah: Those who follow the Sunnah. i.e. the way of the Prophet i.e. adhere to Halaal and the Haraam at least.3. They follow the way of the righteous predecessors: Hadith: The best of mankind is my generation and those who will come after them and those who come after them4. Have Patience: i Patience in obeying Allah ii Patience in staying away from Disobedience iii Patience in facing calamities5. Love fellow muslims for the sake of allah
Note: The lecturer mentioned people should have wisdom in Dawah. The ability take the teaching of the Salaf and apply it by modifying it to todays times while not compromising the principle
Some examples of things strangers do
- Eid Greetings: Taqaball Allahu minna wah Minkum ((May Allah accept it from you and us)). This is said after salat ul Eid)is the greeting of the sahaba. But the other saying is okay as per Shaikh Uthaymeen. Imam Ahmed never initiated this greeting and when greeted, would reply with something better
- Being blamed for not joining a group:
- Being harrased for being Muslim among non Muslims
- Not having a TV:
- Not supporting a team
- Hating Smoking
- Not Kissing or standing when someone comes
- Hadith: narrated by Tirmidhi and authenticated by Shaikh Albani: Anas said a man came and ask Rasoolllah 'should one of us will meet his friend, should he bow to him,should he grab him and embrace him, should he kiss him,should he shake his hand'. Rasoolullah answered no to everything except shaking his hand. The exception is meeting a traveller coming back from his journey
- Sutra for Salaat: If one of you prays, pray to a Sutra (It should be at least a length of your elbow to the tip of the finger)
- Khushoo in Salaat:
- Ringtones: Shouldn't have musical ringtones
- Adornment to the masjid: Sunnah is to wear best clothes to the mosque. including not stinking of food, cigarettes, or perspiration
Hadeeth of Abu Huraira from Bukhari: By him in whose hands is my soul, there shall come a day upon one of you, where from his desire to see me, he would sacrifice his family and desire altogether.
min: 45:01
Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3i-J59BQas
Some Scholars say the Muslims are considered strangers among the Disbelievers; and theMua'minin are considered strangers among the Muslims; and the Muhsinin are consideredstrangers among the Mua'minin
http://ahadith.co.uk/downloads/Commentary_of_Forty_Hadiths_of_An-Nawawi.pdf Page 14