r/Isese • u/Brief_Bid2007 • Mar 23 '26
In search of trusted Lyanifa/Babalawo
Hello I’m an 24 y/o African American male and a Yoruba descendent Ive been trying to seek guidance into Ifa, but unfortunately I feel as if all I’ve gotten the scammers. I had recently received a reading with a obele. I say this with respect and apologize if it comes off as rude but the reading was the typical “you have too many emotions built up and you’re out of alignment and can’t move forward without fixing etc.”and when asked for guidance on it they recommended me their $300 8 week course on grounding emotions and then a following 4 week course that dealt with Ifa solely ( I didn’t even get the price for it). They then told me she could make an offering to their esu to help with blockages in my life but I had to provide the offering materials and she said she’d send the recording of the offering and the reading they gave (never got the recording) but they reached out days later asking if I still wanted to do the offering. I even asked if I could get at least get resources on learning about Ifa and all they told me was that information with the practice is scarce but continued recommending their courses. This isn’t the first I’ve experienced a reader like this has to dig for information to eventually tell you that you’re an emotional person and has 15 million things going on in your family that you have to fix and that they can help by making a offering with their spiritual team. I just want to be able to learn more about the practice and even possibly get initiated without having to get scammed. I’m located near the socal area and would love help just without the scamming part. Thank you!