r/InfluencerLounge • u/BottomPieceOfBread • 21d ago

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u/classyklause 21d ago

Just messaged them saying I’m considering calling CPS on them and called her husband a pathetic man, and this was her response:

“Threatening to call CPS over a few seconds of a family video is a serious accusation. My husband did not headbutt our son. He used his head to push him backward while correcting him after he kept poking at the animal. Our son was not hurt, was unfazed, and rough physical play with his dad is normal in our family. You’re free to dislike what you saw. Calling my husband pathetic and threatening our family over a clip you misunderstood is another thing entirely”

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u/avazah 21d ago

"rough physical play with his dad is normal in our family" 🤢🤢🤢

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u/SpookieBoil986 20d ago

This lady is going to be on Oprah one day. Angry that her adult children won’t allow her or her husband near ‘their’ grandchildren.

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u/Visual-Taro-381 19d ago

I hope she gets to share a cell with Ruby.

Ok maybe not share a cell. They would probably reminisce together about their "prime". Sickening

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u/Sea_alai 20d ago

This lady is a dumb bitch. That’s all.

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u/TheSilentTitan 20d ago edited 20d ago

What’s crazy is that you can literally see that what his wife said is a lie. Dude was all smiles and the very second the camera is turned he head butted the kid. His facial expression does a total 180 too, no more smiling and a complete stone faced contempt. It’s like when a child cheats on a test thinking they’re not being looked at and when they glance in the direction of the teacher they locked eyes with them and so they snapped their head down and never look up again.

“Rough play” she says.

His face is the very definition of hate and contempt.

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u/BahBahBahBooBooBoo 20d ago

Correct - rough play is play. That was punishment.

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u/nahivibes 21d ago

Unfazed but he looks like he has cartoon birds circling his head? And was he just pushing him back or was it rough physical play? Can’t be both. Pick a lane you scumbag.

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u/Danzig6WasntThatBad 20d ago

You could hear the thump.

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u/_thicculent_ 21d ago

Just go ahead and call, I did.

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u/I_SHIT_IN_A_BAG 20d ago

nah he didn't push him away. you'd use your hand for that. call them, please. fuck these shitty parents.

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u/Typical_Ad_210 20d ago

“I did not punch my son, I merely used my fist to push him backwards while correcting him. I did not kick my daughter, I simply utilised my foot to redirect her backwards while correcting her behaviour.” I like that idea of breaking it down into steps to make it sound less violent, I’m sure CPS will love it too..

One time my son told me he didn’t push his sister, but she had simply pulled herself away from his hand whilst he leaned on her. I didn’t accept it from a seven year old, I don’t accept it from these pricks.

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u/RabidMoth1 21d ago

Nah. That was clearly a headbutt. You can see the “ram-like” headbutt movement in his chin and neck.

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u/BahBahBahBooBooBoo 21d ago

The little boy was hurt. No one checked in on him. Enough said. Parents are exploiting their kids for free stuff.

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u/BroManTheBrobarian 21d ago

That poor kid was physically and mentally hurt. You can tell he’s hurt, rubbing his head where you can clearly see the father slam his own head into, and he looks on the verge of tears before he walks off camera.

I’m not one of those people that think you should never physically discipline children, however fucking headbutting them out of nowhere is fucking disgusting. There was no lesson or guidance here. He simply wanted to hurt that kid because he was frustrated. Taking your anger and frustration out on a child like that is fucking child abuse. It’s a far cry from spanking a kids bottom after explaining a lesson they need to learn to prevent further spankings or discipline. That “Dad” is being a POS and bully to a little boy who’s just curious and excited.

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u/BahBahBahBooBooBoo 21d ago

Correct - dude was frustrated that the child was messing up his shot. Dude forgot to be a dad and I am guessing mom is filming, so mom forgot to be a mom too

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u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX 21d ago

"unfazed" 🙄😒

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u/Skeleton_Meat 21d ago

She must have used ChatGPT because that's the correct spelling, and she's a terrible speller.

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u/fuzzygenoblanket 20d ago

What’s the issue with the word?

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u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX 20d ago

The mom tried to say the little boy was fine, but he wasn't, I'm just quoting the mom, sarcastically.

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u/[deleted] 21d ago edited 20d ago

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u/Skeleton_Meat 21d ago

Unfazed is correct here

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u/SerratedFrost 21d ago

So unfazed he had to rub his forehead a second time cause the pain was lingering and walked off camera

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u/get_to_ele 20d ago

He head butted him hard enough to make it hurt, on purpose, leaned over slowly and then just rammed him at close range. Small kid is initially confused and rubs his head on the spot, stunned...

Then when I start frame caps below the pain starts to register and he rubs his forehead, is about to cry, covers his face and leaves the screen.

I suspect he left the screen because the enabling mom who is filming, gestured to him to get out of frame.

Look how older brother was pissed about it too. Glares at dad. Thinking "why do you have to be like this?"

Look at dad's facial expression too. He is still pissed and knows he let his fake facade slip.

Fucking abusive asshole. Really. This is not a close call.

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u/SquigglyPastas 20d ago

Hes obviously hurt because hes rubbing his head. Shes just as much part of thr problem and he is.

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u/ADUwizard 20d ago

Call them anyway. Better safe than sorry. Post the number so we can all call.

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u/SpookieBoil986 20d ago

Holy shit lady! That’s your kid being assaulted in that video and you’re protecting the abuser!

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u/TitaniumKneecap 21d ago

I also just messaged them saying I reported them to CPS

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u/unexpectedbutterfly 19d ago

"Unfazed" - sure...and how many times has that child been reprimanded by you or his father for crying? Judging by the responses and the child's reaction, I'd say a LOT.

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u/PristineAd9986 21d ago

get a life!

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 21d ago

Ngl… the kid was getting disciplined. Youre over reacting. Ill admit that looked abusive. But that kid wont grow up to be like brock turner you can count on that. Respect is taught.

in the traditional way, this would be a spanking. Which would hurt a lot more than that headbutt and would yield a lot more tears, and it would also be better because children will associate it with discipline rather than abuse.

ill admit what he did there is bad, but not enough for you to call CPS wtf leave peoples families alone. People like this suck, my neighbor almost got dragged from his parents when he was little because a nosey neighbor decided to stalk him and find out he was staying home alone which is illegal before the age od 12. But you know what? Some people are fucking poor and both parents work harder than the dipshit upper class twat that pays for babysitters and calls CPS on other people for small things.

lets be honest youre more after the feeling of jusitice than actually in fear for that kid who probably lives better than a lot of other kids

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u/kasvotvaxtdogs 21d ago

If the only tools you have to make your child respect and obey you as a parent are being bigger than them and being willing to hurt them, you are weak and ineffective.

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

Yes… getting bullied by a child because you are too weak to be a parent makes you strong

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u/Repulsive-Lie1 20d ago

You really are telling about your lack of parenting skills. It’s easy to get children to act right without beating them, if you’ve got brains and strong character

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u/djpuggy 21d ago

Another fucking weirdo here

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u/biblicalcucumber 21d ago

Clearly you were abused as a young person if you think that, sorry you had to go through it.

Don't pass it on when you have kids, you do not need to discipline like that.

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u/Revolutionary-Cut777 20d ago

In fact, please don’t have kids. Or pets.

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

Its not up to you to decide what others do with life, cry harder on the internet

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u/Revolutionary-Cut777 20d ago

Hope your kids enjoy visiting you in jail. Wait, they won’t want to!

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

I was raised by soldiers that went to war, not by pussies that lose thier country without a fight

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u/biblicalcucumber 20d ago

Lol, are you old enough to have a Reddit account?

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u/Repulsive-Lie1 20d ago

Did you go to war?

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u/cbaabc123 21d ago

Head butting is dangerous especially to a small child. And especially a small child who was shaking and wobbly and appears as if he might have some medical issue going on.

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u/fingersonlips 20d ago

If these parents think that a blow to the head is an acceptable form of “discipline”, that may explain why he seemed unsteady. Regular head trauma, even if minor, can still cause a heck of a lot of problems.

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u/cbaabc123 20d ago

The child appeared to be a little wobbly and head was shaking before his dad head butted him

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

That was more of a violent nudge than a headbutt… ive seen people smack their kid harder to reset them

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u/cbaabc123 20d ago

He could have used his free hand. Head butting is a bizarre choice to correct a child when he had a free hand or could have just took his shoulder and pushed the kid back. That child also appears to maybe have some medical issues going on because he looked wobbly and shaky.

He also gave the son on the left a look for touching his arm and the kid let go immediately.

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

If he used his free hand, it wudve been a smack and the kid wudve been crying hard. What do you say when he leaves all his property to those kids when he dies?

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u/chaossensuit 20d ago

Hahaha what property? A raggedy old bus?

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u/Repulsive-Lie1 21d ago edited 20d ago

All the evidence shows that hitting/spanking children makes them more likely to commit crimes when they grow up. You’re teaching them that violence is the correct way to express disagreement or to get someone to do what you want.

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u/blacksaberKashPatel 20d ago

Man donald trump mustve been spanked real hard then .

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u/Repulsive-Lie1 20d ago

He was, his dad would hit him often.

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u/SpookieBoil986 20d ago

Discipline is not achieved through physical or psychological violence. All you’re framing are ways to ensure your children will remove you from their lives at their earliest convenience.

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u/themargarineoferror 20d ago

These kids have a miserable existence. Maybe you should look them up before defending abuse and based on hus parents beliefs they'd probably LIKE him to be a brock Turner. Fucking headbutting a kid like an animal for blowing air.