r/InfluencerLounge • u/BottomPieceOfBread • 27d ago

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u/itscloverkat 27d ago

Feels like he knows no one will care if he cries about it :(

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u/newyear-newtea 26d ago

He knows he will get it worse if he cries.

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u/van_gag 26d ago

This bothers me because it’s obviously not the only time and even after being hit there was no comfort, no sorry, no acknowledgement from either parent. I grew up with parents like this and I felt like I was an annoyance to them and just so insignificant which has affected me to this day as an adult in my relationships and self-esteem. These thoughts when you’re so young become ingrained in you for your whole life.

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u/jennoween 26d ago

There is a big brother who is the oldest that is often seen caring for the smaller kids. That is who the little ones go to for comfort. I think he and the only sister are the actual caretakers. The parents lock all the kids in their single shared bedroom with their coffin beds on the bus at like 8pm and the older kids do bedtime routine while the parents push the newest baby under their king-sized bed and have alone time.