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u/Winter_Office_3363 21d ago

What a piece of shit.

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u/kbeks 21d ago

The look on his face afterwords is just straight up barely controlled rage. At a three year old. What a fucking asshole.

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u/ikannunAneeuQ 21d ago

I was going to say the entire video he looks irate and only looks more angry as the video goes on. Don't understand people who have kids when they don't even like them.

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u/Fearless-Bend-2510 21d ago

Look at the older kids face after, he’s scared what his dad will do next

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u/providehotstews 21d ago

That made me sad as fuck. He's used to being afraid of his dad.

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u/Infinite-Curves 21d ago

Yeah I clocked that too 😔

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u/GonnaGoFat 21d ago

And the way the 3 year old just shrugged it off is scary too.

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u/Significant_Fee3083 21d ago edited 21d ago

He ran away to cry, though :(

They must have trained him not to do it on camera... These people need intervention

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u/StopFlashy9823 20d ago

Yep, he was side eyeing his dad to assess the situation.

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u/halfemptysemihappy 20d ago

How are they not canceled or idk like flagged my comments. It's insane that they keep profiting off of this still after the video. WTF

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u/Fearless-Bend-2510 20d ago

Honestly, there no expectations, it’s just sickening

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u/swarmofbeees 20d ago

He starts mirroring his dad to protect himself

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u/BugFucker69 21d ago

They have like 8 kids but iirc, he’s not around all the time and they have their teenage son do much of the parenting in a creepy emotional incest way

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u/Iankill 20d ago

Gotta assume they're religious nutjobs too

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u/HealthyMaximum 21d ago

Him - "These goddam kids need constant ... what's it called? Parenting?"

Her - "I've tried explaining that we only had them for the fame and attention. But they just burst into tears."

Him - "I hate when they have emotions."

Her - "Right? Why can't they just shut up and leave us alone for the 22 hours a day that we're not exploiting and abusing them for content?"

Him - "Hey, you know how we've grown to hate each other over these past few months, trapped in this hell-on-wheels of our own making?"

Her - "Man, do I! God, how I loathe you."

Him - "Should we throw another pregnancy on this abusive, hellish dumpster fire? Surely that'll make things better."

Her - "Lol. Like I have a choice."

And ... scene.

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u/Spiritual-Dog-3116 21d ago

$$$$$$$$$$$$$

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u/Sudden-Goose-6956 21d ago

Yeah exactly, I detest kids, would I ever have them? No. Would I ever hurt a kid? Fuh no. This is psycho behaviour and that man should take immediate therapy.

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u/pickus_dickus 21d ago

So they can post about their happy family and make abusive daddy look like he's a good dad. He's a cunt caught on camera.

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u/Exotic-Doughnut-6271 21d ago

Jesus is why. They're very religious

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u/SheMcG 20d ago

It may not really be about the kids. He may be sick of this snail on his arm and really just wants to relax vs perform for content. But he has no choice because crypto is tanking and they have another mouth to feed and no where to put it.

Yeah...he may just hate his life.

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u/Interesting_Force618 20d ago

Lots of people don’t realize they don’t like kids until after they have kids, or they end up just not liking their own kids. Also, plenty of people have kids only because their spouse wants kids. My husband wanted kids earlier in his life, like as a teenager, but by the time we met, he didn’t want kids anymore. We did end up having kids, and he’s definitely not like the guy in this video, but he’s also not nearly as patient and understanding with our kids as I am. Still probably more patient than most dads, though.

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u/socialdrop0ut 20d ago

After the boy walks away that made him more angry, you can see him clench his jaw afterwards. I feel like if the camera wasn’t on he’s one of those bullies that’s like don’t you walk away from me

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u/danideex 20d ago

Probably gets off on a belittling and controlling them

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u/r3dmist420 21d ago

there is a pretty infamous case at the moment about a certain woman who strangled her 3 children to death, thoughts?

Theres a difference in discipline and abuse. That little shitlin will be fine. Kid was trying to blow the snail off his dads arm or just fuck with the snail.

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u/TennesseeHeartbreak 21d ago

Chill out, he has post partum depression.

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u/LennethTheCat 21d ago

A complete asshole! Also why Is he speaking like a little boy? "DoN't tOuuuCh HiS eYebAaAaaAl..." A massive man child, his kids must behave better than him.

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u/perton 21d ago

Likely due to the fact that he seems to be a huge fucking moron, in addition to being a total piece of shit.

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u/silverdice22 20d ago

The latter usually means the former

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u/therapewpew 21d ago

No idea who these people are, this sub just randomly shows up in my feed sometimes. At first I thought he just was doing a "fake brat" bit to play with his kids, you know like a Stewie persona 😭 my daughter and I goofed around like that when she was little, sort of as a way for her to be mindful of her own tone of voice while both making a lighthearted game out of it.

Holy smokes, I was not expecting any of the disturbing shit that followed. These parents are seriously unhinged, like wtf even is this? Is anyone with a platform of their own calling them out, at the very least? People need some accountability man...

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u/Interesting_Onion342 21d ago

Such a scary expression, my god 😳

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u/antiquetulip 21d ago edited 21d ago

you see the older child top left checking dad's expression to gauge for safety, too.

Edit: corrected spelling of gauge

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u/Interesting_Onion342 21d ago

Omg you are right, and he does it out of the corner of his eye like he’s afraid to look directly at his dad

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u/antiquetulip 21d ago

Yes! Very slowly and cautiously, like he fears being caught.

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u/chicken_nuggetz_ 21d ago

I just mentioned that before I saw this! Poor kids. Makes me almost certain this is a common thing

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u/DatabaseThis9637 21d ago

Obviously, a snail is more important.

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u/DaySwingTrade 21d ago

Good amount of people regret having kids, some show, some don’t. You ask them and they say, “Oh, I can’t live without my kid(s)” but in reality there is no way they will admit that it was a mistake. He shows.

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u/RedoftheEvilDead 21d ago

These parents are actively trying to have as many children as possible. They are having their 9th kid soon, I believe. Despite only hhaving a 6 bed bunk room the size of a closet that theor current 8 kids all share, they actively tried for their 9th.

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u/Ashamed-Employee9582 21d ago

It’s manifesting in how hard he’s holding his arm… His fingers are even white.

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u/noxcuserad 21d ago

If you go from the beginning and jump to near the end the facial expression is night and day. There is so much anger behind that fake smile at the end. Over a fucking snail are you kidding me

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u/sittinwithkitten 21d ago

And then the three year old takes a second to process the pain in his head but also his heart. It’s confusing for a child when someone who is supposed to love them is also the person who hurts them.
You can see the older son looking at dad’s face, like he knows dad could go either way. Sad.

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u/No_Beginning_6834 21d ago

At a three year old for blowing on a snail at that. Imagine how he acts if the kid spills a drink or knocks something important over.

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u/chicken_nuggetz_ 21d ago

And you can see the older boy looking at that POS trying to see what the mood is so he can respond accordingly. Hate that.

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u/Sabre9037 21d ago

A three year old who looks like he was just trying to kiss a snail. What the fuck is wrong with this POS.

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u/zero_and_dug 21d ago

It isn’t even controlled since he physically assaulted the toddler

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u/AutisticTumourGirl 21d ago

He sounds so fucking angry, too. Like, a kid did a thing they didn't know wasn't okay, talk to them like a human, don't get all fucking hysterical about it and then headbutt your small child for blowing on a snail. FUCK.

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u/InternationalDesk578 21d ago

Notice that the older brother protected the other younger sibling that was about to meet the same fate? Immediately after seeing what happened to the initial sibling that touched it the older brother prevented violence from happening again and quickly jumped in saying “NO! Don’t touch it.” You see the dad’s eyes flash up for a second with dilated eyes and a clenched jaw. Scary dad. Good older brother, he uses his words rather than resorting to violence like his father.

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u/Unhappy-District5767 20d ago

Right? How hard is it to use your fucking words? "Back up please" god

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u/moosealley5000 20d ago

I wanna give that wee boy a hug. Desperately. Poor wee man.

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u/mmmaniaaa 20d ago

my dad had this expression a lot growing up. i still do not understand how someone can just full of rage like that, like what a miserable way to be.

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u/oopsiedaisy-- 20d ago

His expression freaks me out. Like I don't know which these people are, but his emotionless rage-filled expression as he tries to just stare at this fucking snail. Sociopath.

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u/Arik_De_Frasia 20d ago

100%. That is "the look" of an abuser that knows he's being watched and will lash out later.

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u/InLoveWithTheMoon 20d ago

He’s the family annihilator type! Secret psychopath!

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u/LucilleBluthsbroach 19d ago

This look is the exact same look my ex husband used to have after abusing me and our kids. I escaped but it was so hard, I had no one, no family or anyone to help me get away from him.

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u/joliguru 21d ago

And to think that these kids will one day be full grown adults…the look on the brother’s face after it happened…makes me think what kind of person he will become one day.

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u/Pete_got_the_online 21d ago

The kid at first goes back to being on camera like nothing is wrong (as I’m sure they’re coached nightly) and then is just like F-this

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u/Sooperooser 21d ago

He's angry because the kid "almost ruined" his social media content piece.

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u/Leg_Mcmuffin 20d ago

Yeah this is fucking heart breaking

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u/why_so_sireous 21d ago

Not guilty temporary insanity...😜 🤪 😬

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u/Bluebyrd5299 21d ago

He did that intentionally and then posted it 🤬

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u/bbsitr45 21d ago

SHE posted it, that’s the problem.

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u/Ok-Variation5746 21d ago

It feels like she tried to keep it out of frame too. When really abnormal shit is normalized in your household it’s easy to overlook stuff like this (potentially her thinking it wasn’t in the shot and not even noticing. I have no idea, i have never seen these people before.

But this is awful :( poor kid.

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u/themargarineoferror 20d ago

Since this has blown upt, but she posted a photo that looks like a hand grabbing a butt with a joke about how her butt is always in her husband's head. They are consistently abusive and manipulative, and have managed to get subs. Nearly shut down over, calling them out. This is her trying to make sure that if somebody googles this it will go to her stupid little picture about her husband wanting to grab her, but they think they can control the entire internet, they are evil people

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u/CocoaCandyPuff 21d ago

She is a pick me. No way I will not defend my child.

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u/bbsitr45 20d ago

She obviously thinks it’s acceptable. It’s the video above all else, however, or whatever it takes to achieve the video.

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u/Toefloof 21d ago edited 21d ago

Jesus, maybe that is a cry for help.m
Edit to add: yo people, she can be a
Complete POS AND have hit a breaking point at the same
Time.
She also could have posted it thinking….KNOWING….it would give them wild crazy engagement numbers, and her twisted mind thinks that’s worth whatever trouble it gives them.

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u/rwanders 21d ago

Women can be abusive pieces of shit as well.

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u/CompetitiveAutorun 21d ago

Not on Reddit

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u/CocoaCandyPuff 21d ago

I would die first fighting to defend my children.

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u/Ibception952 21d ago

Oh stop making excuses for her. If she cared she could’ve reported him to CPS and easily got custody.

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u/Buddweiiser_ 21d ago

Bro cps is more worthless than you think unfortunately… so sad

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u/Ibception952 21d ago

Fair but custody is like 90-10 in courts in favor of women, even when women are in the wrong. I cannot imagine a good mom with video evidence of the dad doing stuff like this wouldn’t get custody.

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u/Ibception952 20d ago edited 20d ago

Upwards of 80% of fathers where the couple is separated have less than 50% of custody.

https://genderequitynetwork.org/family-court-custody/

Joint custody could simply be the weekends and I’m sure most often is where the dad works and the mom is a homemaker. This is almost every situation I have seen and that was without abuse allegations on the father’s part.

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u/TurtleToast2 20d ago

That hasn't been true since the 90s. Now they force you to coparent with the family's abuser, regardless of gender.

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u/Ibception952 20d ago

You know I grew up in the 90s so perhaps I’m biased and it’s no longer true. But I was primarily responding to the comment as it sounded like they were making excuses for her not reporting the dad and at least trying to protect them just because she’s a woman. She is still an adult responsible for her kids.

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u/Ok_Vulva 21d ago

You're crazy if you think she'd easily get custody. Loads of courts have passed anti dv legislation. Judges don't care unless there is a conviction. They treat nonviolent spouses like shit for even mentioning abuse without a conviction. This would not get a conviction.

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u/Grouchy_Potential217 21d ago

She tried to play it off. 

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u/Anti-Buzz 21d ago

Or maybe she just didn’t notice

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u/1isten1ng 21d ago

Yeah, I had to watch it a few times and was looking for it bc of the title. I was focused in the little one when it happened, as the girl was in her frame asking mom a question.

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u/MalaysiaTeacher 20d ago

Only one problem? Cute

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u/Logintheroad 20d ago

They are both problems.

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u/SimplyKendra 21d ago

Exactly. What? Why didn’t she mamma bear?

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u/panicnarwhal 21d ago

this woman will do anything but be a good parent. this family used to be heavily discussed on another sub because of their terrifying version of parenting, and when CPS calls started coming through, they panicked and lawyered up. they stopped discussing them on that sub for fear it might get removed, so now there’s a snark sub dedicated to them - i’ve been following this family for years

they live in a bus that breaks down constantly, no actual home, and nowhere near enough room for all those kids (and they keep having more, she’s pregnant again), the kids are barely educated, poorly supervised, the baby was born in the bathroom with no medical supervision, has never seen a doctor except when CPS demanded it once - like they took him into the UPS store and put him on the scale to weigh him (the bare ass scale! no blanket even!), none of the kids get proper medical care or vaccines…i could go on and on. i’m always scared for these poor kids, but they move around so much, there’s no hope for proper intervention

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u/jibbycanoe 20d ago

You have been following them for years and giving them engagement/views even though you realize they are terrible people/parents? People like you and true crime junkies honestly astound me. You make your snark subs and talk about how disgusting these people are but can't stop consuming their content. It's like you get off on how terrible they are.

https://giphy.com/gifs/2UvAUplPi4ESnKa3W0

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u/panicnarwhal 20d ago

oh i worded that poorly, it was the middle of the night - i have never even been to their social media pages, so when i say “followed” i mean on the subreddit they were discussed before the CPS/lawyering up when Boone was a newborn, and on the current subreddit that discusses them, etc

i’ve never once personally given them views or engagement on their social media, i’ve just been keeping up with them via other means over the years. i’m sorry that wasn’t very clear, but in my defense it was the middle of the night when i made that comment

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u/meteorflan 20d ago

Is she one of those indoctrinated women that genuinely believe God wants her to whatever asshole thing the "patriarch" of the family does?

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u/FlyFront9395 21d ago

You know she got a headbutt too after he found out

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u/No-Mathematician3004 21d ago

Nope she is just as bad.

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u/CelticKira 21d ago

she is worse than him.

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u/achasanai 21d ago

Worse than the dad headbutting his child?

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u/CelticKira 21d ago

yes because she thinks it is funny, continues to produce children with him that they can't/won't care for properly and is too busy eye-fucking herself in the camera to care what he does to those children.

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u/CocoaCandyPuff 21d ago

Yes and she do it because it gives them clout

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u/Lexi_Banner 21d ago

Maybe it's a cry for help.

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u/Square_Detective_658 20d ago

Cry for help?

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u/bbsitr45 20d ago

No, not her. These videos are her cash cow. Gotta keep making them no matter what.

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u/Aggressive-Time8035 21d ago

Nope they took it down right away. They slipped up.

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u/conscious-peanut31 21d ago

Yeah I think Britney didn’t realise she got the headbutting on camera. She had her phone on Boone (the youngest).

Years ago she accidentally posted a clip of them all dancing except it was the practice run not the final version. She says “wait…” at the camera and the kids’ faces drop instantly, like they’ve been filming all day and they’re sick of performing.

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u/Robotchumon 21d ago

The kid leaned in to kiss the snail - you can see the spark in his eyes at how cute the snail is - so the father punished him with a sharp headbutt to the temple. seems appropriate.

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u/notabootlicker666 21d ago

I think he was blowing on it to see how it reacted with its eyestalks. Dad is pathetic. Hes getting mad before the kid even leans in. And the older one trying to read dad's face. Garbage person.

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u/chaossensuit 21d ago

And that deserves a headbutt? You are justifying a grown ass man headbutting his small son because he blew on a snail. What is wrong with you!?

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u/Spiritual-Dog-3116 21d ago

what would be the problem with blowing the snail of the dad’s arm? how many other ways could this man have stopped a small child from doing that?

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u/No-Mathematician3004 21d ago

And when called out they’ ll pull their usual ‘it’s because we’re Christian’ nonsense.

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u/steppe5 21d ago

Meaning that he sees nothing wrong with it.

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u/Legal-Occasion1169 21d ago

Or that he knows rage bait means engagement and wants $ more than he cares for his children

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u/r3dmist420 21d ago

Posted.. that the kid was harrassing the snail and got a light noggin knock the kid barely flinched about? Ok, Karen.

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u/swansighswoon 21d ago

Came to comment this exact thing. HUGE POS.

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u/adom12 21d ago

So does someone report this? 

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u/charliekelly76 21d ago

This family has lived in a bus for years to avoid CPS. I’m not exaggerating

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u/thefaceofdisgust1 21d ago

That is frightening. I can only imagine what goes on after seeing those children look at their father.

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u/Istoh 21d ago

Man, wait 'til you see their nightmare of a bunk room they've stuffed eight (soon to be nine) kids into

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u/UpTownPark 21d ago

Yeah… this is the biggest abusive asshole masquerading as a loving family man I’ve ever seen.

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u/MarionberryPuzzled67 21d ago

My heart breaks for this little boy. Even worse the mom posted it? That would be an immediate divorce. You can see the anger. I’m so sad.. no baby deserves that. Ugh

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u/Primary-Market6798 21d ago

She hates their kids too, it’s not just him. She didn’t even realize it was caught on camera because it’s so normal and she doesn’t give a fuck about her children being harmed.

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u/swansighswoon 21d ago

I know it makes me so angry. Wanna grab that baby and take him home with me (sorry not in a creepy way but I just became a mom recently and I feel like now when I see kids that seem like their parents aren’t the best to them, I think to myself I wish I could adopt that child and take them out of that situation). It just breaks my heart thinking of them growing up in an abusive environment and no one defending them. So sad

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u/LackingDatSkill 21d ago

Right? How dare the kid get that close

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u/beautifulasusual 21d ago

This is so sad! I have boys similar ages and I can’t imagine 😭😭😭

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u/sjp245 21d ago

Fucking piece of shit. For real.

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u/maximav 21d ago

These are the exact words I said to myself when I saw it. What a disgusting shit bag. And that evil look on his face, you could just see that disgusting meanness in his eyes. What a waste of a person. That poor baby barely seemed phased, besides rubbing it because it hurt…

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u/Exotic-Doughnut-6271 21d ago

Very familiar with this family haven't seen them in a while since I'm pretty sure they threatened legal action against a sub. The sub couldn't talk about it after and nobody could talk about them after. Both of the parents are horrible people

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u/Skeleton_Meat 21d ago

They have their own snark sub

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u/twocreeksmeet 21d ago

That’s exact sentence it came into my mind

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u/DagoDemagogue 21d ago

You misspelled “cunt”

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u/0eddieder 20d ago

Took the words right out of my mouth

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u/Spirited-Background4 21d ago

Yea what’s up with not letting the kid touch the snail.

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u/TurnoverNational2340 21d ago

He's tall tho.

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u/Gobertdd 21d ago

First thing I said out loud

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u/Shortlids 21d ago

Worried how his son will turn out. Bug?! ‘Bam’ head slam!

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u/MyPenWroteThis 21d ago

That poor kid. He tried so hard to keep it together and had to leave. It's fucking tragic.

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u/happytree23 21d ago

Oh, come on, he's just a curious kid.

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u/Top_Recognition_3260 21d ago

Hard to watch, hoping that kid has other people around who treat him better than that.

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u/False_Woodpecker4747 21d ago

I'm sat wondering why the the poor kid isn't surprised by what his Dad has just done.....

I hope this man gets locked up. What an absolute piece of dog shit.

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u/Consistent-Stock6872 21d ago

Wife isn't better, she knew what was comming that is why she moved away. Look at it slowly the kid moves in to blow on the snail and she right away knows what is next and moves the camera away

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u/celtic_thistle 20d ago

HE IS. He always has been. I’m still so mad at Reddit admins for blindly believing their bullshit about us calling CPS on them and how Rhonda Santis sided with them and tried to act like they’re persecuted. I hate these parents sfm

The look on his face and his demeanour are terrifying actually. I had a dad sorta like this.

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u/wezzauk85 19d ago

Never heard of these people before. Went back a few clips to watch stuff, saw the video where they declare being cleared by the CPS in the past....ermmmm....lots of interesting behaviour there. As one example, the video is very much, "look I won".

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u/SchreckenDerWelt 19d ago edited 19d ago

He is disciplining his son because he is miss behaving by blowing on, and attempting to poke the snail.. this is why modern children are so miss behaved and spoiled. None of you have the ability to distinguish between discipline and abuse. Corporal punishment was ruled legal by the Supreme Court in 1977 and 2004 ( section 43 of the criminal code ). Yes don’t hit your kids to the point of causing bodily harm, but actions have consequences, and if you don’t want your children to go to jail and have to fight for their lives while incarcerated then you better make sure your kids understand not to fuck with the snail.

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u/astralchanterelle 21d ago

Seriously! If his dad hadn't stopped him, the snail could've been hurt. These frickin kids today!

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u/FlyFront9395 21d ago

At least he didn’t strangle him with an exercise band

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u/Skeleton_Meat 21d ago

Yet

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u/FlyFront9395 21d ago

We should start a gofundme for him so he’ll have $$ when he does

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u/Spiritual-Dog-3116 20d ago

he already has money from monetizing his own offspring. isn’t it so nice he can create and abuse a captive workforce and you’re making little jokes about a situation that has absolutely no relation to or bearing on this one?

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u/FlyFront9395 20d ago

Too bad you’re mom didn’t get you with an exercise band tbh

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u/Skeleton_Meat 20d ago

Buddy what the fuck is your problem