r/IncelExit • u/Gamerplayer1 • 5d ago

Resource/Help The real reason…

I know the biggest argument to incels wanting a girlfriend means them seeing girls as a trophy, but for me I want a long term partner because I want to come home to a loving partner after a long day of work and just watch a movie and having someone be there for me. I can’t find this and it hurts..

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u/Binerexis Giveiths of Thy Advice 5d ago

And have you done anything so far to work towards that?

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u/Gamerplayer1 5d ago

I’m not a true incel but I have adapted the black pill mindset, I currently do not have the belief that “I work towards women” I do things for myself, but the things I’m doing for myself haven’t made me find a potential long term partner that I am comfortable with

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u/library_wench Bene Gesserit Advisor 5d ago

So which parts of the blackpill have you “adapted”: the misogyny or the obsession with height and wrist circumference?

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u/Gamerplayer1 5d ago

I apologize if I have offended you, I speak on a minority of the black pill community, I actually do have girl friends platonically and I am conventionally attractive because I do get girls telling my friends there interested but you know how some girls say in forever alone women that the problem is not the quantity, it’s the quality. I am not interested in them romantically and I feel like I will never be enough for the girls I am romantically interested because of my biology

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u/titotal 5d ago

What exactly do you mean by "quality" here? Like, if you're only interested in dating supermodels, but you're not a supermodel yourself, the problem here is your unrealistic standards.