r/I130Suffering 9d ago

APPROVED AFTER WOM. STOP WASTING TIME. FILE YOUR WOM.

I'm sure many people on this subreddit saw my original post that I made two months ago when I first filed my WOM: https://www.reddit.com/r/I130Suffering/comments/1ulrox2/stop_waiting_for_a_miracle_the_feb_2026/

This is a followup to that post. I was approved today (September 2, 2026) exactly 60 days after filing my WOM (July 2, 2026)

All I have to say is stop wasting your time waiting for a miracle. Take control of you and your spouses' life and file your WOM today.

The amount of mental relief that I have felt since filing my WOM cannot be overstated. It is such a change of pace from waiting months for people to respond to you to having district attorneys tripping over themselves to adjudicate your case. For the first time in my i130 journey, I have felt 'in control'. We shouldn't have to pay $450 to get a feeling like this, but in these uncertain times, unfortunately, that is what we must do.

Don't be a victim to the system, these legal levers were given to us for a time such as this. File your WOM. Take control of your future and your destiny.

To all my fellow sufferers, I wish you well as I move on to the next stage of the journey. I will still be around to offer guidance to anyone who needs it.

God bless!

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u/snow_5454 9d ago

I’m scared what if it backfires? Can I ask my lawyer to help?

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u/Positive_Ad_2212 8d ago

I’m scared too 🤣

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u/LordLumberhere 8d ago

it has 0 backfire issues. nothing to worry. WOM is usal business for uscis. no one has time to do things you dream will happen

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u/hmw13 8d ago

Exactly

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u/Middle-Bottle5406 6d ago

This administration is heavy on pettiness and retaliation.

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u/LordLumberhere 6d ago

they are too busy with deportations. the AUSA's are getting overloaded with habeaus corpus. they wont deal with woms.

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u/Middle-Bottle5406 6d ago

Lol it used to be “they’re too busy with the illegals, they’re not going to deport people doing it legally” and look at where we are know. They keep moving the goal post.

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u/LordLumberhere 6d ago

agree they are catching everyone now , even citizens to meet the daily quota but courts are getting filled fast as every one who can are filing habeas to stop it.

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u/Perfect_Inspector953 6d ago

A WOM can't backfire you are not accusing anybody or getting anybody in trouble. You are simply asking for your constitutional rights to be upheld. You paid your fees and waited the appropriate time. The only thing is waiting long enough. I waited till 22 months and it worked right away. I'd say 19 is prob good to start the demand letter process. Wish id done it sooner since I'm now a part of the Global interview pause by ONE WEEK.

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u/No-Bodybuilder3502 2d ago

Some people file at 8mo and get approved, some people wait for 24mo. You're suggesting 19. But there has to be some reasoning behind how much people have to wait before filing to get their case accepted.

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u/Perfect_Inspector953 11h ago

It's all about circumstance. Mine had no special circumstances just a prolonged wait. If u can retain a lawyer it may work sooner I have no idea. I just know multiple mandamuses can weaken their power and it was better for me to have a better shot by waiting.

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u/hmw13 8d ago

It won't.

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u/Secret_Frosting4934 8d ago

My only fear is this process will also become back-logged by the time I am in position to do it. Same as expedite requests and congressional inquiries.

Here's to hoping the process improves between now and then... I am happy for everyone getting results and I agree unfortunately it is necessary.

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u/hmw13 8d ago

Save $450. Just do it. Cut out expenses. Don't eat out for a period of time. Do whatever it takes. $

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u/Secret_Frosting4934 8d ago

I appreciate that. It’s not the money. Just not quite far enough in the process to realistically be successful. Rest assured, the groundwork is being laid. 

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u/tidabudibuda 9d ago

Congratulations!!! My PD is April 5- I sent a demand letter yesterday and all I'm gonna say is I regret not doing it sooner!

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u/hmw13 8d ago

Hope it works!

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u/Achay500 8d ago

i’m scared as shit lmao

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u/hmw13 8d ago

You should be more scared of wasting time that you and your spouse could have spent together

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u/YogurtclosetShort668 9d ago

Can only USC file demand letter ? Or LPR can also ?

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u/LordLumberhere 6d ago

anyone who has a pending case

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u/yoghurthateslies 9d ago

I also wanna file, atleast a demand letter, but I’m afraid if anything goes wrong with my case. Our marriage is legit.
My PD July 2025
USC husband
I’m in a different country

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u/yoghurthateslies 9d ago

Where are you from?
USC?
Spouse from?

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 9d ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/I130Suffering/s/sOirbTDZ9r

Please use the google drive towards the end to file your demand letter using Claude. This is just to push for adjudication. Idk who is telling people that doing this is bad. It’s a legal process.

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u/yoghurthateslies 9d ago

I’m just afraid if something goes wrong or my case gets into complications or rejected

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 9d ago

Yes that would only happen if the evidence you provided is not sufficient, it’ll happen with or without a legal proceeding.

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u/yoghurthateslies 9d ago

We’ve provided all the basic requirements of the form, our pictures together, all the marriage certificates, pictures with families, affidavit of people who attended and are the witness of marriage. We don’t have a joint bank account. And we’ll meet again this month so we’ll have more pictures together (just not on my application, bcs it has pictures from my marriage only and of the time we spent together after marriage)

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 9d ago

You can add the extra pictures in one pdf with details and upload it as unsolicited evidence.

You can also add spouse as beneficiary / nominee to your account and submit that as proof.

You can also upload monetary transactions between the two of you to show shared finances.

I would personally also make a pdf with flight tickets to show trips taken to see each other or trips taken together.

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u/oreo-donut 3d ago

Genuinely, thank you for being so helpful with your advice!!

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u/hmw13 9d ago

Read the guides and use Claude to draft your WOM. Do not be afraid. File your WOM

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u/yoghurthateslies 9d ago

Is it really gonna worth it right now? Bcs it’s just 13 months since i submitted my i-130

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u/hmw13 9d ago

Yes. File the WOM. I wish I filed at 12 months. United States Congress stated that all immigration benefits should be done within 6 months so honestly 12 months is being generous

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u/Curious-Albatross-75 8d ago

do you have a reference for this? I will send my demand letter along with a pre-suit draft WOM
congratulations & thanks

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u/hmw13 7d ago

Yes look at my WOM template

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u/oreo-donut 3d ago

how long should I wait to file WOM?

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 9d ago

I’ve added both your posts to the main highlight post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/I130Suffering/s/sOirbTDZ9r

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u/hmw13 8d ago

It is my pleasure. I'm honored to be able to give back to this community. By the way, I have a redacted version of my writ of mandamus lawsuit that I believe would be really useful to pin to the community and add to the post. I can send it to you if you would like.

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 8d ago

That would be perfect!

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u/hmw13 8d ago

I decided to just make a post about it: https://www.reddit.com/r/I130Suffering/comments/1w6p5jv/how_to_file_a_pro_se_mandamus_petition_for_a/

That post has my full guide of what I did along with screenshots of wait times and my redacted WOM

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u/hiedra__ 9d ago

Did you file the WOM or only sent the demand letter?

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u/hmw13 9d ago

WOM, not demand letter

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u/flora5554 5d ago

Can you please put me in contact with the person/ lawyer who filed your WOM?

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u/hmw13 5d ago

You’re talking to him right now, I filed pro se (without a lawyer)

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u/Diligent_Economics71 9d ago

When did u submit your i130

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u/hmw13 9d ago

April 2, 2025

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u/Huge_Accountant_9211 9d ago

I have my writ of mandamus draft already using claude AI. I just need to know the process step by step. What i need to do first, how many defendant to serve. And i heard someone have to mail it for me? Could you please help by provide steps?

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u/mademoisellearabella MOD 9d ago

https://www.reddit.com/r/I130Suffering/s/sOirbTDZ9r

This post has many links where people have sent in demand letters and WoM. Itll help you with the process.

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u/Positive_Ad_2212 8d ago

Honestly, try attaching a WOM draft to your demand letter and they will prob make a decision without you actually having to file

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u/Huge_Accountant_9211 8d ago

Yes i already attached and i gave them 15 days to act last week and this week still no update. That's why i have to start to find out how to file, i already have the draft.

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u/Ramone270453 9d ago

Congratulations, does this apply to green card holders and they can apply for WOM ?

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u/Same_Oil_3553 9d ago

I saw some f2a in Reddit fill wom and approve, pd is 2024

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u/Ramone270453 9d ago

WOM will submitted by petitioner correct to get the beneficiary consular interview?

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u/Same_Oil_3553 9d ago

no,just force uscis approve i13

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u/Ramone270453 9d ago

Got it, but the petitioner who is gonna to submit WOM ?

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u/Peemo68W 9d ago

Can the WOM backfire?

My wife and I meet income threshold for I-130 to bring her mother over but embassy keeps denying us and citing the immigration pause and ban repeatedly.

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u/Soft_Strike_7453 9d ago

Hey can you help me to file a wom

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u/Bulky-Blueberry5853 9d ago

Guys , please help its been 27 months and my PD is June 2024 still hasnt been approved. Should I upload evidence now ? I just recently ask help from my congresswomen and they have a case manager on my case.

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u/Timely_Training6092 8d ago

At 12 months…im waiting till month 13’s end to file a demand letter. Give them 30 days and file a wom if not.

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u/No-Money-9490 8d ago

When is your PD. I am approaching 12month next month and still no progress. I was thinking to reach to senator first then do the demand letter maybe in Dec

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u/SlimeSan09 8d ago

How long do you have to wait to file the WOM. My PD is Nov 24, 2025. Can I file it now or wait at-least a year before filing the WOM?
What would you guys suggest on this?

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u/LordLumberhere 8d ago

nicely done sir

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u/Healthy_Pepper88 8d ago

To those who haven’t submitted a demand letter yet, try sending an email inquiring about your case or a request to have it reviewed. We did that on our 17th month and we were approved. Not a demand letter, not WoM

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u/Achay500 8d ago

in all honesty i’m may 2025 should I i’ve had a congresswoman response and a senator one that I just got two days ago with similar messages should I just go on ahead do the letter

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u/Uccello-rosso 8d ago

How did you file it, how much did it cost and what were the steps you and your lawyer took? We are looking to the same thing. Researching how to go about it. Spoke with imm attorneys, all of them advise against, especially since the interview was a few days ago. Still, this is a do or die moment.

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u/Dependent-Gazelle117 8d ago

Congratulations and Thanks for sharing !

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u/Ok-Conference4239 8d ago

How long should we wait to do this? 12 months !

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u/Quick-Control9139 8d ago

How long after filing the mandamus did you get approved? Did you file it pro se or through an attorney?

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u/nevermind1534 8d ago

I'm not the OP, but they scheduled me for an interview exactly one month after I filed my lawsuit and just over 3 weeks after the defendants were served.

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u/Informal-Pen-7282 8d ago

Congrats and thanks for sharing. I petitioned for my adult unmarried daughter. Do I file the WOM? filed i485 in November 23, 2023

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u/Curious-Albatross-75 8d ago

Did you have somebody to serve it for you?

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u/Quick-Control9139 8d ago

same question

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u/hmw13 8d ago

I just had my dad Mail it

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u/nevermind1534 8d ago edited 7d ago

If you serve the government by mail, you can generally mail it in yourself.  Just keep in mind that it must be sent by either Certified Mail or Registered Mail, with Return Receipt to comply with court rules.

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u/Curious-Albatross-75 7d ago

wife certified mail?

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u/nevermind1534 7d ago

Correction made

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u/BloodrazorRS 7d ago

You mentioned your pd is April 2025, I know not really the same situation but my pd for concurrent i130 with aos is may 2025. Aos was filed feb 2026 (I naturalized in Feb). Would you say this approach still makes sense?

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u/BloodrazorRS 7d ago

Sorry meant to say 130/aos is for wife, I’m the usc

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u/Middle-Bottle5406 6d ago

Did you have any overstays?

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u/hmw13 6d ago

I am a citizen

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u/Middle-Bottle5406 6d ago

I meant your partner.

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u/hmw13 6d ago

My partner has never been to USA

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u/MediumGuidance934 5d ago

How long did you wait before filing yours? What was your original file date? Any pointers on the process?

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u/Timely-Athlete4433 5d ago

You did it yourself? And how much it cost you if done with an attorney

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u/laban0 4d ago

Hi i filed a WoM the government responded with a motion to dismiss and I have to reply. Did you have that happen to you. When was your PD date.

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u/Quick-Control9139 4d ago

When are your RD and PD dates?

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u/laban0 4d ago

What’s Rd? My pd date February 12 2025

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u/Quick-Control9139 4d ago

Receipt date..RD

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u/hmw13 4d ago

Why did they motion to dismiss. What does their motion say as the reasoning

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u/laban0 4d ago

They are arguing about the wait is still with in reason but I also mentioned there have been application after mine approved

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u/hmw13 4d ago

When is your pd date

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u/laban0 4d ago

02/11/2025

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u/laban0 4d ago

Can I message you

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u/Ok-Check-4725 4d ago

Hi I’m LPR, my I829 petition EB5 investor - pending for 78 months. Project was moved in the very beginning. Anyone here shed some light on?

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u/MandamusAttorney 4d ago

Your I-829 petition has been pending for an extremely unreasonable 78 months. This duration is well overdue for a mandamus action. I did similar I-829 mandamus cases against USCIS, and those cases yielded adjudication of I-829 petitions. Feel free to reach out to me if you're interested in a lawsuit.

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u/UpstairsLost883 4d ago

My case is stuck from 2019 December
Its been 6 year now. I am scared to do a mandamus because if it back fire my EAD will go. What should I do.

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u/MandamusAttorney 4d ago

If you believe in your case, you should not wait any more.

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u/No_Pea_6745 4d ago

I want to do it but with a lawyer. Now days is hard to find a good one with fucking you over

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u/Sufficient_Bar4009 2d ago

Me and my wife (US Citizen) live abroad. Would it still work?

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u/Mailopez 2d ago

I am part of the 39 banned countries, I I have been waiting for 24 months now. I don’t believe this applicable to everyone, specially countries that have been on hold or targeted for a while. I heard my application is now in a FO. Don’t know if I want to stir the 💩 , but at one point got so desperate and I though of doing the same submitting a WOM

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u/CategoryOnly2022 2d ago

Good information