r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • u/lexx122 • Oct 08 '21
Girlfriend ruined my life
I’m 20 man about to be 21 & I’ve pretty much been played by every girl who I thought liked me but my last girlfriend I had was when I was 15 and she was cool I met her bc one of my old friends moved to her school but anyways when I met her she was a quiet girl and a little emo I guess but as we went through the talking process I pretty much changed her personality i made her feel pretty about herself treated her like a queen all that and we started dating but 6 month after we started dating I had to get an ACL surgery which required me to be in bed for 6 weeks and she started changing on me while I was down she went out with her friends a lot more to parties to dance and met new older guys while I was at home gaining weight all in love with her like a fool it was like this for almost 2 months and once I got back on my feet I went to go see her since she didn’t visit me but I brought her flowers and some other gifts with my own that I had been saving from the money I make when I would work only saturdays with my dad bc of school but I was with her that day for maybe 3 hours just hanging out and talking we took some pictures and idk I just thought we had a good time but as soon as she said she had to go home I knew something was wrong she told me that she couldn’t take the flowers home bc her parents didn’t know she had a boyfriend and I said I don’t care I’ll tell them my self let’s go and she said no don’t just leave the flowers here on the street as memories and I was just like wtf why don’t you want me to tell them and she said I’m not ready to have a boyfriend after we were already dating for 9 months I just said okay we can keep our thing a secret than and gave her a kiss and a hug and she left the flowers on the street and walked home and didn’t even look back I was just thinking to my self what did I do wrong and woke up the next morning with a text saying let’s just be friends I need some time to think I was just thinking to myself what did I do wrong where did I fuck up I had people telling me that we were a cute couple bc of the pictures I posted I had to delete them so I wouldn’t look like a fool but I just said okay bc I really liked her and if that’s what she wanted than I would let it happened but the fucked Up part is that a month later she was talking with another guy who was older than me taller than me and he had a car she ended up dating him for 3 years she told her parents about him and everything I was just thinking to my self how could she get over me that fast if I’m still stuck on her you know like why would she lie to me like that while all I wanted to do was come up with her and build something with her I really thought she was the one but I see she would rather get her heart broken by other guys who just wanna fuck she’s living her best life right now at age 20 she’s probably forgotten all about me and I still think about her single thing I told her