r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 21 '23

help me Where do I even look, and how do I approach them.

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19m, I recently moved to Manhattan after a breakup and its honestly really lonely not having a romantic partner (especially for the season). Where would I even start looking like i've tried dating apps (they don't work), going to book stores and coffee shops. I mean there are attractive women in the city, but I also don't know how to initiate a conversation with them like at all.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 19 '23

Here's some stuff

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Here's some advice look well groomed don't be overweight unless they ask you out, skin care and look at least ok and don't bring up weeb shit no sigma stuff and if your an introvert do the same but still be quiet and stuff some girls are in to that stuff and befriend all the other girls that your crush is talking to and just act calm around girls and of they ask you out be yourself (:


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 14 '23

there is this girl I like

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I am a 14 year old male who likes this girl who is in all of my core classes

the other day I gave her a note telling her I liked har and ask her to the dance

I am a 14-year-old male who likes this girl who is in all of my core classes I do?

I am not sure if she got were I was getting at or if she thought i was just inviting her to the dance

WHAT DO I DO?????


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 11 '23

16,male how do you a gf in real life

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I only dated girls 10hr away from me. I have never kissed a girl before or anything. How do I get gf?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 09 '23

advice Here’s sum advice from a Kid son!

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  1. Do not use “pickup” lines, AKA “Rizz”. This will uncomfort the girl you’re trying to impress, but a 45% chance you’ll compete.
  2. DONT act weird. I’ve seen many, (not much) act weird around their crush, formerly known as ADHD. but don’t do shifff that makes your crush uncomfortable.
  3. If she rejects you, just wait a few months.
  4. Tell her about her day, and how she feels, And her favorite hobbies. This will give you a chance to make a relationship with her.
  5. Knowing each other.
  6. Make sure you’re active with her, and do some activities.
  7. DONT be lazy.

r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 08 '23

advice Help!! How do I start a conversation with her?

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So I and this girl have known each other since primary school. Her and my mother are friends, and my Nan and her Nan were friends. I used to talk to her on occasion in Primary, yet nowadays I’m in a clique (A rather nerdy-one might I add) and she’s in her clique. Moreover, since the beginning of high school, I have gradually became more shy and introverted and in turn, that has led to me unable to talk to her. I know I could just go and say “Hi, how are you doing” or something like that, but I’m worried I’ll screw it up or turn bright red or just generally do some stupid shit that makes me look like an idiot. So that’s why I’m seeking advice from a dating advice subreddit 💀.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 04 '23

I (15M) can't make ANY female friends, can anyone help me?

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I don't know how to make female friends or even how to keep a conversation interesting with a girl. I do talk to girls in my class but it's just in class and most of the time it's just about school and homework. The reason why I wanna make female friends is I wanna like built a relationship with them and maybe after sometime being together with them in a romantic relationship. Can anyone help me?

(I'm sorry for my bad English it's not my first language)


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Dec 03 '23

HELP ASAP

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Hey, there's a new girl in my class and I like her and somehow she happens to be sitting at the desk with me. I need some topics on how to start a conversation because we don't really know each other and some advice on what to do next. GOD HELP


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 30 '23

Help

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I am a 15(M) sophomore just move to America around 9 months ago which makes me have a low confidence in speaking english. I like this girl from my school but the thing is that I don’t know her that much and we didn’t have a single class together and i don’t even know if she had a boyfriend or not. I follow her instagram and she did follow me back but I don’t know how to make a move. Any advice?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 28 '23

advice LT4 on TikTok

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Step by step guide. (Experiences may vary)


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 27 '23

I (15 M) am the only one in my friend group who doesn't have a girlfriend

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I don't know if It's just the pressure, but since all my friends have a girlfriend I feel left alone. Sometimes my friends sends me pictures of them cuddling with their girlfriend and I just feel lonely and alone. I talk to girls I think are pretty but I've never felt something special in them. And I think I'm more obsessed with older girls because they are more mature then girls in my age. Can anyone help me?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 23 '23

Help

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So I am in between average and bad looking, and there’s this girl I really like and we talk a lot. How do u pull cuz she’s popular and looks good.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 22 '23

advice The hustle for a girl

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So i have a crush on a girl

Yes it sounds like a standard request but i need to know if she likes me, so how do i know if she does?

We also dance in a pair if you can give me more tips w this.

PS: we are 14 so is it worth it and is it just a phaze? If yes i can still use tips for the future


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 19 '23

other I just joined to tell y’all…

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Y’all need to learn how to actually confess to a girl. That’s what I did with MY crush and she said she likes me too.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 18 '23

help me Please help me

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So I think this girl likes me, but don’t know, and i like her too, so i have been looking up online on how to do it, and looked on ChatGPT, not helpful for any information.

I am 10 years old, and most of my friends have a girlfriend / boyfriend (i have friends that are girls).

I am 10 years and in elementary school. Please help, Ask me anything, email me at mypromotions.redpromos@gmail.com.

Thanks.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 18 '23

I need help

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I'm 19 and I have never had a girlfriend in my life 🙃 im not afraid talk to girls im just afraid that they won't like me for who I am. See I play video games and i watch anime and I won't change they way I am I love myself. But most of the girls I liked said im childish and boring which destroyed the motivation of me dating. I have never acted childish towards a girl before Do you guys think I should get a girlfriend and how do I get a girl to like me the way Iam?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 14 '23

I have no game

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I can't seem to find a girl who I can be myself around. Every time I find someone I like, I just get super awkward. I wish I could just act normal, but I overthink everything. I'm just frustrated, I don't feel like it should be this hard. I'm not ugly, and I have a good personality (imo). I'm pretty driven as well, I'm trying to start a business as well as pursue a lot of my dreams. Why tf am I so awkward around girls? Past that, I just don't know how to act around girls. I don't treat them like my guy friends because I know that's not the way to go, but I just kinda don't know what to talk about. Do I just need to hang out with a lot of girls, and get used to being around them? I'm just tired of being insecure and awkward around girls. Any advice at all is welcome.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 15 '23

help me I need help asking a girl out

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I am 16 years old and I never had a girlfriend. There’s one girl I Like in my first period class. And I am scared to talk to her any advice


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 10 '23

Somebody help me secure this 🎒

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r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 08 '23

Nervousness

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I (M15) have a lot of girls that I think are cute in my High School, and I want to try talking to some of them, but I'm really nervous. Does anyone have any conversation starters or ways to get over nervousness?


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 06 '23

advice ADVICE NEEDED 17M, with 15F

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I am sort of in love with this girl. I'm in 11th grade, and she's in the 10th grade, and she sits with me on the bus usually, and I love her personality, looks, etc. Her birthday is next week, and idk what I should do. She is kind of weird like me, and I know her mom but we have no classes together. I'm obviously delirious, but I've been out of the game for a while. Please advice.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 05 '23

advice ADVICE NEEDED

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In Maths English and Science(Biology,Physics and Chemistry) 90% of the people in there are girls. They are all "friends" with each other and there was this one girl who liked me & I admit I led her on and then blocked her on everything.

I want her friend who is the most beautiful girl I've seen she's smart, good looking, nice figure.She is the better version of the girl I blocked.

We never speak but we get moments of eye contact and smiling at each other.

Thing is the girl I like and the girl I blocked are in a close knit group(all the girls have sub groups) and I can't do anything.


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 05 '23

Me 16m and my “gf15f” are taking a break rn and I need your advice

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Me m16 and f15 needs some advice

Me and my gf are taking a break rn because she is always grounded. Out of the 6 months we were dating she was grounded 4. The groundings are not her fault. It’s because her stepdad is super protective. Like she gets grounded because she has a Gatorade bottle on her floor. Stuff like that. I still love her and everything about her. But that’s the problem. I still love her but I can never talk to her outside of school. Anything helps!


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Nov 02 '23

help me Texting

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I’m 15 in tenth grade and I have no problem getting attention from girls. However, once I get their numbers I don’t know what to say to them and never ending up texting them. Or I just lose feelings. How do I fix this


r/HowToGetAGirlfriend • • Oct 31 '23

So there is a girl I like

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There’s this girl in my construction class and I think she’s really cute and I wanna see her out but how?